Caleb Mc Aravey

Doing what I 'should' made me miserable. Doing what I want made me.... me. | Philosophy & psychology Junkie & Wanderer

[Caleb Mc Aravey @CAravey]

Helpful fact for anyone going through a rough time:

Seeds need darkness to sprout.

Some of the best parts of you will only emerge in your toughest times.

[Caleb Mc Aravey @CAravey]

Sometimes mindfulness is not enough. You need to tackle what is the reason you are constantly pulling you into the past or future.

Asking someone to stand up straight with an anchor on one hand? impossible.

[Caleb Mc Aravey @CAravey]

I am not afraid to say, "I do not know".

I am afraid to say that "I do not care..."

[Caleb Mc Aravey @CAravey]

The worst approach to emotions:

Denial, repression, distraction.

A road well worn for conflict within yourself.

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HP rejected Steve Wozniak's idea for a personal computer, believing that there was no market for individuals owning computers

Today:
Hp Inc networth: $35.16 billion
Apple Networth: $3.277 Trillion

[Caleb Mc Aravey @CAravey]

If you want peace, You must:

1. Stop battling your inner world.
2. Start listening to its signals.

[Caleb Mc Aravey @CAravey]

Want to grow fast? Sell your soul.

Want to grow forever? Build your character

[Caleb Mc Aravey @CAravey]

If you want your kids to:

1. Choose your company as adults.
2. Love you consciously, not out of dependence.

Then:
1. Become independent and resilient.
2. Then focus on becoming an unnecessary parent.

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5 core beliefs that power burnout:
1. Self-worth tied to achievement.
2. Fear of failure
3. Asking for help makes you weak
4. I need to prove myself
5. Rest is a luxury not a necessity

[Caleb Mc Aravey @CAravey]

Nobody is coming to magically fix your feelings.

The power lies in your ability to identify, locate, and tolerate them. This is true emotional maturity.

[Caleb Mc Aravey @CAravey]

Good friends of X

What makes your heart sing?

[Caleb Mc Aravey @CAravey]

If you're battling fear, you're missing its purpose. Allow it to show you where to focus, and then focus. Fear isn't the enemy, it's a signal.

[Caleb Mc Aravey @CAravey]

Helpful fact for anyone going through a rough time:

Seeds need darkness to sprout.

Some of the best parts of you will only emerge in your toughest times.

[Caleb Mc Aravey @CAravey]

The greatest parenting paradox: hold on too tight, and you'll lose them. Love them enough to let them go and they will come back.

[Caleb Mc Aravey @CAravey]

The mark of a great parent isn't control, it's becoming unnecessary.

Ask yourself: will my fully grown kids want to be around me?

[Caleb Mc Aravey @CAravey]

@achilleas_ghost Well I have been taking my meditation quite seriously lately, I haven't missed a day in 150 days so far. Its been life changing.

[Caleb Mc Aravey @CAravey]

To reconnect with yourself:
- Journal your deepest thoughts.
- Meditate on your inner voice.
- Seek therapy for healing.
- Walk in nature to reflect.
- Dance to liberate your soul.

[Caleb Mc Aravey @CAravey]

@skill_of_life we have lots of noise these days and I have done my fair share of contribution

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You think you're too deep? You're not.
You're just seeing more.

Most people skim the surface, mistaking action for purpose. But depth is where life's real treasures hide. Breathe, feel, think, connect.

See the world in a grain of sand, and eternity in an hour.

Don't die efficient at something meaningless.

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To make better life choices:
Stop seeking perfect solutions.

Ask: "What pain am I willing to accept?"
Ask: "Which situation suits ME better?"

Embrace the reality of tradeoffs.
Find peace in choosing your discomfort.

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To truly understand your emotions:
- Identify the feeling.
- Locate it in your body.
- Listen to its message.

Act on the wisdom it provides.

Transform yourself, not the emotion.

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@markmanson Now I can't sleep thank you!