if there's one thing i have learned from the women before me, it is not to make huge life altering sacrifices for men. They do not deserve such loyalty and commitment
Sometimes “locking in” looks like sitting in the sun and remembering that your life is also meant to be lived, not just optimized, monetized, and turned into proof that you’re worthy.
Instead of saying "Women slept their way to the top"
We say "Men withhold promotions until they receive sexual favors".
Because that is what it really is
i think the love you receive from someone who knows how to be alone is the most sincere. a solitary soul loves u by choice and not out of need for company
There's that lady huko tiktok mwenye huanza vida zake na "charity teaches you something in psychiatry " , hua na like and repost ata before aanze ku explain, what a way to use tiktok
I'm so sheltered by the people I surround myself with that I sometimes forget how different the world can be outside my little bubble. I’m surrounded by so much openness, curiosity and empathy that I forget there are still so many people whose worldview is shaped by prejudice
It’s always fun to throw people off with your duality. You can be mysterious but also honest about your lived experiences. Funny but strict. You can be multiple things at once. Life is more fun that way when you have a multidimensional and layered personality.
You can literally feel in your soul when it’s TIME .. time to move on from people, time to make a change in your life, time to get rid of unhealthy habits, time to want MORE for yourself. At some point you’ll just know..
Keep your problems smaller than your life. A flat tire is a flat tire. A bad meeting is a bad meeting. A canceled flight is just an extra two hours. These things become catastrophes when you let them. But they stay manageable when you remember the depth of your real life- the people you love, the work you care about, the beautiful years still ahead. Zoom out. Fit your reaction to the size of the problem.
— Unknown