If you're a grown man playing video games for more than 5 hours a week, your wife is definitely checked out of the marriage. Put the controller down and go build something or play with your kids. itโs embarrassing.
I know so many women that are still sleeping with their exes while in "happy" relationships.
Become friends with more women, and you'll be disgusted by the things you see and hear.
A woman leaving you because of struggles is understandable thereโs no glory in suffering together. But trying to win that same woman back after you become financially stable is mental illness