I found a guy on YouTube who asks 60, 70, 80, and 90-year-olds:
โข Their biggest mistakes
โข What they used to worry about
โข One piece of advice for their younger self
Wildly enough, they all pretty much mention the same things.
Here are my top 7:
If a family/group can afford to angusha a mbuzi, mizinga na crates kadhaa - you can afford to hire workers to clean & cook!
Normalize holidays where women sit around eat, talk, chill, listen to the sermons, feature in pictures looking nice & smell fresh all day.