I think when you’re overstimulated you should appear kind of grayed out and no one should be able to interact with you like a locked character in a video game
I genuinely cannot be in community with people who struggle to apologise when they hurt someone intentionally or not. I just think it’s pathetic. Regardless of if it’s pride or shame, having to force an apology or empathy out of a grown adult is a major red flag.
An incel is still an incel, even after money and fame.
Hey @nbcsnl , maybe it’s time to include monologues at rehearsal so you can avoid hosts calling women whores on national tv while we work alone to end rape culture
I think people vastly overestimate how much personality lives inside a person and underestimate how much it exists between people. Change who someone is with, how safe or judged they feel, and you can get an almost different human being.
I think ppl get offended when you aren't ashamed of things that they were taught to be ashamed of.
They resent you for not caring what everybody thinks.
So freeing to realize you don’t actually need to solve someone’s inner life to decide what their behavior means for you. Maybe they love you deeply & are still too dysregulated, avoidant, selfish, overwhelmed, whatever to treat you well. You can believe that and still leave