@DonnaDlm71 I call it out all the time. I did when I was in the job too. Some of them have thin skins. They’re too precious to realise bad practice reflects on all of them.
@emmahoneybone It can be Tink. I could offer soundbites or well meaning quotes but in all honesty the only thing that works is time. My experience is that we never forget those we’ve lost. If anything we feel closer to them because we can’t take their presence for granted anymore but we find
*Phone rings, woman answers.*
A pervert, with heavy breathing, says, "Have you got a tight, unshaven twat?"
Woman replies, "Yes, he's watching television - who shall I say is calling?"