Most black American men are not a good example of true masculinity.
Most were raised by single mothers, and most are getting married to single mothers of different fathers.
One of the weakest set of men you can find in the world.
Feminised men.
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Avoid marrying a woman you cannot correct , advise or direct . Because marriage is not a playground of emotions , it is a journey that requires order, respect and wisdom
If you have a colleague or friend.
And both of you have a mutual colleague or friend.
And that mutual dies.
Please study how you and that colleague or friend will remember the dead mutual.
You may not discuss or remember the mutual anymore.
Everything you're working, struggling or fighting for.
Be it fame, money, reputation, love, validation, etc.
Will matter no more, once you die.
That your boss that you're afraid of, or has been threatening your life, will no longer have such "powers" over you, after the boss dies.
That woman or man that you're struggling tooth and nail to find his or her love, will no longer be valuable to you, once he or she dies.
All the money that you have been stealing or working legitimately for, will no longer be yours, once you die.
The career you have built, the academic achievement, the fame. All would be gone with you, into the grave.
Before my father died, he said that he wanted to buy an SUV.
He worked hard for the money.
The money came.
But he died before he bought the SUV.
And I was staring at his dead body, remembering all he told us, and all that he wanted to do, as a living being.
He was gone.
And today, all the friends that he had, and those that he helped and went overboard for, are nowhere to be found.
I have had colleagues who unfortunately died while working. The maximum that we did as colleagues, was to mourn for a few days, became present at their burials.
The office or business did not close because of their death.
And other living humans, have since been employed to replace them.
Perhaps, where God showed us that he's God, is to never let us know when or where he would ask us to come back home.
But he gave us the privilege to know before hand, when our offsprings would be born.
If humans knew when they would die, the world would be so cruel.
Because if I know that I would be dying within a year, who gives a fuck about laws, rules, kindness or niceness?
I would be dead in a year anyways.
The people that died before me, & tried to live right by others, who even remembers them?
Am I better than them?
Fuck it!
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You're a young 21 year old boy.
Your younger brother is 18.
You decide to go and be doing yahoo yahoo, against the advice of your parents. And you decided not to take your education seriously.
But your younger brother is completely opposite.
10 years later, your yahoo money don finish, and you're now a beggar and not useful to the society.
Your brother has built his life and has a blossoming career or business.
Your younger brother did not do you ooo.
You did yourself, and you should not envy him.
If he decides not to help you, please do not hate him.
You're the architect of your failure.
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Lol, Male friendships are crazy. A chronic smoker would be best friends with a guy who has never touched a blunt before
A chronic womanizer can be best friend with a nigga who don't gaf about women.
All of you that have fathers that know that you're a yahoo boy, and they are encouraging you, have irresponsible fathers.
A father that encourages his son to be a thief, has failed his son.
And he has failed God.
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It turns you into a people pleaser. You avoid conflict because you canโt afford to lose access, help, or opportunities.
It makes you overexplain. You feel the need to justify your existence, choices, or mistakes.
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men have worse friendships. lack of boundaries, secret resentment etc.
they wonโt tell each other how they feel, itโs their gfs thatโll be listening to all the rants ๐