dan coba ngobrol atau ngapain aja buat balikin sparksnya. Sesimple you guys talk on phone, ketawa-tawa bareng, it melts all the worryness yang ada di diri kita.
Itu sih ... kalau nggak bisa, it is what it is aja sampai batas sabar kita kena
Jawaban realistis: no need to rebuild the relationship kalau hanya satu arah
Jawaban yang mungkin bisa menolong: biasanya buat rebuild itu kita sama-sama bikin janji buat ngelakuin satu kegiatan yang sama di satu waktu, satu hari, or even satu jam. Spend waktu bareng di saat itu
Hari ini pake seragam polo shirt baru dari sekolah.
Salah satu murid gue (kelas 12) nyeletuk “Haha… Miss seragamnya kayak seragam cleaner kita.”
I stopped at my track. Eyebrows raised.
I let silence speaks.
Itu salah satu cara gue untuk koreksi sikap. Tanpa kata-kata, membiarkan keheningan mengajar.
Murid2 gue langsung tau udah ngomong salah.
“Sorry, Miss”
Let’s evaluate first. What’s potentially wrong with your previous sentence?
“I said u looked like the cleaner”
Oh but why? Pak X (the name of the cleaner) works HARD and thorough every single day. He clocks in at 6.30, clocks out at 4.30 without failing. The floor is shining. The desk is shimmering. The job is paying his bills, providing food for his family too, decent, halal, and amazing. What’s wrong with looking like Pak X?
“Yes, Miss. Sorry”
What are u sorry for this time? He’s a hard worker and I aspire to be just that.
“Yes, Miss, okay.”
What potentially be wrong is the unspoken behind your words, nak. I dunno ur intention but it sounded like u looked down at his profession… which is wrong. I don’t feel humiliated bcz nothing is wrong with “keliatan kayak cleaner”, it is the possible tone and the intention that potentially makes it mean… and wrong. You are a kind person, I know u, and you never want to be mean… intentionally ofc.
“Ya Miss, sorry.”
Please be kind. Dismissed.
😤
Hari ini pake seragam polo shirt baru dari sekolah.
Salah satu murid gue (kelas 12) nyeletuk “Haha… Miss seragamnya kayak seragam cleaner kita.”
I stopped at my track. Eyebrows raised.
I let silence speaks.
Itu salah satu cara gue untuk koreksi sikap. Tanpa kata-kata, membiarkan keheningan mengajar.
Murid2 gue langsung tau udah ngomong salah.
“Sorry, Miss”
Let’s evaluate first. What’s potentially wrong with your previous sentence?
“I said u looked like the cleaner”
Oh but why? Pak X (the name of the cleaner) works HARD and thorough every single day. He clocks in at 6.30, clocks out at 4.30 without failing. The floor is shining. The desk is shimmering. The job is paying his bills, providing food for his family too, decent, halal, and amazing. What’s wrong with looking like Pak X?
“Yes, Miss. Sorry”
What are u sorry for this time? He’s a hard worker and I aspire to be just that.
“Yes, Miss, okay.”
What potentially be wrong is the unspoken behind your words, nak. I dunno ur intention but it sounded like u looked down at his profession… which is wrong. I don’t feel humiliated bcz nothing is wrong with “keliatan kayak cleaner”, it is the possible tone and the intention that potentially makes it mean… and wrong. You are a kind person, I know u, and you never want to be mean… intentionally ofc.
“Ya Miss, sorry.”
Please be kind. Dismissed.
😤
Kapan ya org ngerti gada manusia yg sengaja pengen jadi miskin bangsat😭
Org2 yg lu katain ini bekerja jauh lebih keras dari SEMUA pejabat, dari pagi tembus pagi, yet their money hanya bisa cover makanan utk 2x sehari, STOP TOLOL TOLONG.
apa dan ngasih tau kegunaannya buat badan apa, itu juga yg gua beli*
Demi dah, gua gampang banget keikut arus. Ikhlas gua gapapa atur aja idup gua, ntar gua ngikut
Gua udah dua hari kayak orang linglung tiap makan siang selalu diatur ama yang punya warung makan
Day 1: *ibu-ibu yang jual bilang jangan beli lauk doang harus makan sayur, terus sayur yang ditunjuk itu yg gua beli*
Day 2: *bapak-bapak yang jual cerita tiap makanan dibuat dari