Accountability and motivation can matter, I agree. And sure, you do have some context from what you’re seeing. The issue is you’re treating limited context like it’s enough to make a confident judgment about his character. Seeing someone’s job and current situation doesn’t tell you their full history, constraints, or why they’re there. Clinically you’re supposed to stay cautious with trait-level conclusions when the data is incomplete, otherwise you’re just filling in the gaps with assumptions.
And if you carry that mindset into practice, you’ll misread people, miss root causes, and end up giving the wrong kind of help.
I’m actually studying to become a clinical psychologist myself, which is why your comment stood out to me. I’m not saying psychologists should ‘validate everyone’s feelings’ or avoid hard truths. That’s not what I argued.
My point is that you made a dispositional judgment (lazy, comfortable, making excuses) based purely on someone’s current job, without knowing any relevant context. That’s literally the fundamental attribution error.
Clinical psychology isn’t about being soft, it’s about being accurate. And accuracy requires data. ‘Harsh truth’ is only truth when it’s grounded in evidence, not assumptions. Otherwise it’s just moral judgment dressed up as clinical realism.
@1brad_ass@gotrice2024 'Clinical psychology’ in your bio and you’re talking like this? You’re doing textbook fundamental attribution error. You don’t know his circumstances, health, family burdens, or setbacks. A job title doesn’t define someone’s worth or effort.
Yes, I addressed the rape statistics. Sweden’s reporting change is a documented methodological fact. When you count each incident separately instead of grouped, the numbers rise even if the crime rate does not. That is how statistics work, whether you like it or not. Mocking it does not make it disappear.
And now you claim ‘Muslims think non-Muslims are stupid.’ I have spent this entire discussion explaining context, law, psychology, and actual data. You have responded with mockery, emotion, and slogans. One of us is treating the other as capable of understanding. It is not you.
As for Rotherham, those criminals violated every rule of Islamic law. Rape, grooming, and child exploitation are major sins in Islam. No scripture, no prophet, no jurist, and no school of Islamic law permits it. They were not following Islam; they were violating it. Blaming Islam for Rotherham is like blaming Christianity for priest abuse or blaming America for Epstein. Criminals exist everywhere. What matters is whether the religion commands it. Islam explicitly forbids it.
You said ‘the whole world knows’ and ‘this is just the beginning.’ That is not an argument. That is a fear driven prophecy that appears when someone has run out of points.
And it is clear you never took even one sincere hour to study what Islam actually teaches. If you ever want to understand it for real, you have to read its sources without filtering everything through anger, fear, and secondhand myths.
I came with facts. You came with fear. When you finally learn to separate the two, the conversation will make sense.
I already addressed the rape statistics. You ignored it. I already explained what drives crime. You ignored it. I already explained radicalization. You ignored that too. You are not looking for answers, you are looking for confirmation.
Here is your core problem: you keep treating X as if it equals Y.
Refugees fleeing war zones ≠ Islam commanding invasion.
Wealthy governments refusing refugees ≠ Islam failing. Japan and Poland do the same.
Young men leaving first ≠ suspicious behavior. That happened in every refugee crisis, including during WWII.
Crime among poor and traumatized migrants ≠ religious doctrine.
You are taking political decisions, immigration pressures, economic hardship, trauma, and human behavior, and you are labeling all of it as ��Islam.’ That is not reasoning. That is putting the same label on every fear you have.
And the claim that no Muslim country takes refugees is simply false. Turkey hosts millions. Jordan, Lebanon, and Pakistan have carried the biggest refugee burdens in the world for years. The fact that you did not know this shows the problem is not Islam, it is that you never checked.
Until you separate what Islam actually teaches from what governments do, what criminals do, and what desperate people do under pressure, you are not arguing against Islam. You are arguing against your own misunderstanding of it.
Your question ‘Are you in favor of Sharia being implemented in the West?’ only makes sense if you misunderstand what Sharia is.
Sharia is not a government system. It is a personal moral and spiritual framework. When I pray five times a day, I follow Sharia. When I fast in Ramadan, I follow Sharia. When I give charity, avoid lying, honor my parents, or treat my neighbors with kindness, that is all Sharia. It governs how I live my life, not how I want to govern yours.
So am I ‘implementing Sharia in the West’? Yes, every time I pray, fast, or act ethically. And it affects you exactly zero percent.
What you are actually asking is: ‘Do you want Islamic government to replace Western government?’ The answer is no, and Islam does not ask me to. The Quran says ‘there is no compulsion in religion’ (2:256). Islamic jurisprudence has always required Muslims living in non-Muslim lands to follow the laws of that land. That is not a modern reinterpretation. That is classical Islamic scholarship for over a thousand years.
Now about compatibility with Western values: I live in America. I follow its laws. I vote. I pay taxes. I work. I have neighbors of every faith and none. Tell me which Western value I am violating.
Freedom of religion? Islam commands it.
Rule of law? Islam requires obedience to the law of the land.
Human dignity? The Quran says killing one innocent person is like killing all of humanity (5:32).
Justice? The Quran commands justice even toward your enemies (5:8).
Millions of Muslims live in the West right now proving compatibility every single day. We're not theoretical. We exist. You keep asking whether Islam can fit into the West while ignoring the millions of Muslims already living here peacefully. You are not rejecting reality. You are refusing to look at it.
Here's some facts for you since you can't get them yourself:
You're doing exactly what extremists do: cherry picking verses, stripping them of context, and using them to justify predetermined conclusions.
"Strike at their necks" (Quran 8:12) was revealed during the Battle of Badr when Muslims were defending themselves from an army that came to annihilate them. It is a battlefield instruction during active combat. If you think that verse justifies modern terrorism, then Deuteronomy 20:16-17 ("do not leave alive anything that breathes") justifies Christian genocide. But we do not read the Bible that way because we understand historical context. Apply the same standard.
You claim Islam permits sex slavery. What Islam actually did was revolutionary: it systematically worked to eliminate slavery through legal and social reforms. The Quran repeatedly encourages freeing slaves as acts of piety. It gave enslaved people legal rights and paths to freedom that did not exist in seventh century Arabia. Yes, Muslim societies practiced slavery just like Christian, Jewish, and every other civilization for most of human history. Blaming Islam while ignoring that abolition movements were often led by religious reformers, including Muslims, is historically dishonest.
You say Islam was created for weak, sex crazed men. Then explain why the Prophet’s first convert was his wife, a powerful businesswoman. Why women were among Islam’s first scholars, warriors, and leaders. Why the Quran gave women rights to inheritance, divorce, and property in the seventh century when most of the world denied them these. Your characterization is not history. It is fantasy.
You want examples of Muslim integration?
3.5 million Muslims in America as doctors, engineers, and teachers. Muslims in Canada with crime rates lower than the general population. Indonesia, the world’s largest Muslim majority nation, functioning democracy. Malaysia with one of Asia’s most successful economies. Morocco maintaining peaceful relations with its Jewish community. But you ignore all this because it does not fit your “narrative”.
You say there is no humility in Islam. Muslims prostrate five times a day, putting their faces to the ground in submission to God. We fast to understand hunger. We give charity as obligation. We are taught that paradise lies at the feet of mothers and that the best among us serve others. If you see arrogance in some Muslims, you are seeing people failing their religion, not fulfilling it.
You have decided Islam is evil, so every piece of evidence gets filtered through that lens. Quranic verses about self-defense become terrorism manuals. Muslims living peacefully become exceptions that do not count. That is not analysis. That is predetermined hatred searching for justification.
You have heard this one hundred times and learned nothing because learning would require you to give up the simplicity of your worldview. It is easier to call one point eight billion people violent and sex crazed than to admit you might be wrong. That is not strength. That is intellectual cowardice dressed up as conviction.
You misunderstood what I said. I am not saying there are “a few bad apples.” I am saying that blaming an entire religion for the crimes of extremists is the same mistake extremists make when they blame whole nations or whole groups. That kind of thinking replaces understanding with anger.
You also keep repeating ideas about Islam that are not found anywhere in the Qur’an or in the life of the Prophet. No religion is represented by its extremists, and you know that when it comes to Christianity or America.
If you read actual Islamic law you would know that rape, torture, mutilation, and harming civilians are major sins. Extremists do these things because they abandon the religion and use political grievances to justify violence. Psychologists have been explaining this for years, which is why I said you are blaming a religion because it is easier than understanding the process of radicalization.
When you say “Islam was created so violent men could feel holy,” that does not come from history, theology, or any credible research. It comes from anger, not facts. Islam is followed by nearly two billion people who live normal lives, raise families, work jobs, and contribute to society. If the religion itself produced violence, the world would not survive a single day with that many Muslims in it.
You want humility. True humility starts with asking whether the thing you hate is the thing you understand. Right now you are not fighting the religion you think you are. You are fighting a version of it that exists only in the minds of extremists and people who learned about Islam from them.
And the simplest proof that your idea of Islam is wrong is the meaning of the word itself. “Islam” means “submission to God through peace.” The very definition contradicts everything you are claiming it was created for.
You just proved exactly what I was talking about. You took the crimes of a few murderers and placed their actions on 1.8 billion people. That is not justice, and it is not logic, it is prejudice. When a Christian commits a massacre, we do not blame Christianity. When an American commits a massacre, we do not blame America. So why do you suddenly throw away that standard the moment the criminal is Muslim?
And using a tragedy like the Bataclan attack to condemn people who had nothing to do with it does not honor the victims. It only shows that you are not interested in truth, only in having an enemy. That does a disservice to everyone, including yourself.
If you think Islam is the cause of what extremists do, that tells me you have never studied how radicalization works in psychology. You are blaming a religion because it is easier than understanding the human mind.
If you truly wanted to understand why extremists commit these horrors, you would look at how they twist suffering into hatred. Instead you are doing the same thing they do, taking pain and turning it into a reason to condemn millions of innocent people.
So I see you decided not to listen 100 times before, and you have decided to make it 101 now. You did not respond to a single point I made. Not the historical examples. Not the Quranic principle. Not the Prophet’s life. Not the first scholars and martyrs. Instead, you threw out statistics, accusations, and ultimately this: ‘Lying is a fundamental of Islam, so I do not believe you.’
Do you see what you have done? You have created a framework where any Muslim who condemns terrorism is secretly lying, and any Muslim who commits it proves your point. There is no evidence I could provide that would change your mind, because you have already decided the evidence itself is deceptive. That is not reasoning. That is a closed system that requires Muslims to be villains no matter what we do.
You asked where the moderate Muslims are. I am right here. Condemning terrorism. Explaining the faith. Offering historical evidence. And your response is ‘you support it’ and ‘you are lying.’ If you cannot see the moderate Muslim standing in front of you having this conversation, it is because your framework will not let you.
You want to talk about rape statistics in Europe? Let us be honest about what you are doing. You are taking complex social issues and reducing them to ‘Islam did it.’ Sweden’s sexual assault reporting changed in 2005 to count each incident separately rather than as one crime. If someone reports ten assaults over time, that is now counted as ten crimes, not one. Germany’s statistics spiked after they broadened the legal definition of rape in 2016 to include more conduct. These are policy and reporting changes that inflate numbers without reflecting actual increases in occurrence. But let us talk about what actually drives crime: poverty, trauma, lack of integration, and demographics. Refugee populations arriving in Europe were predominantly young men, the highest crime demographic in any population, regardless of religion. They arrived traumatized from war zones, with no language skills, no job opportunities, and were often warehoused in camps with nothing to do. When you control for age, socioeconomic status, and integration, factors that drive crime in any population, the correlation with Islam disappears. Poor, traumatized young men without opportunities commit more crime whether they are Muslim, Christian, or atheist. That is sociology, not theology. But nuance does not serve your narrative.
You say Muslims are fleeing their countries as proof that Islam creates failed states. Let me tell you something personal. My family had to flee to the United States because our country was made unlivable, not by Islam, but by decades of Western intervention, wars, and destabilization. Iraq, Afghanistan, Syria, Libya, these were not collapsing from Islam. They were destroyed by invasions, proxy wars, and foreign policy disasters, many led by the United States and its allies. Muslims are not fleeing Islam. We are fleeing the wars fought in our homelands, often in your name. And when we arrive seeking safety, you call us an invasion.
Meanwhile, millions of Muslims live peacefully in Europe, America, Canada, and Australia as productive citizens. Muslim majority nations like Indonesia, Malaysia, and Morocco have stable, diverse populations. But you cherry pick the conflicts and pretend they represent 1.8 billion people.
Here is the reality you are avoiding. I have given you theology, history, and personal testimony. You have given me rage and talking points. I came here to engage in good faith. You came here with a conclusion you will not question.
You have heard this 100 times and learned nothing because learning would require you to give up the simplicity of your worldview. It is easier to call 1.8 billion people liars than to admit you might be wrong. That is not strength. That is intellectual cowardice dressed up as conviction.
That belief tells me you've studied claims about Islam, not Islam itself. Islam is the opposite of a cult. A cult demands worship of its leader, blind obedience, and isolation from the world. Islam commands the worship of one God, the use of reason, and the pursuit of knowledge, even from those who disagree. The Prophet Muhammad is not worshiped; he is followed as a messenger, just as Christians follow the teachings of Jesus without worshiping Paul. The central declaration of Islam, ‘There is no god but God,’ rejects the very thing you accuse it of.
If you read even one chapter of the Quran, you would see it challenges blind following and warns against turning faith into personality worship. It is built on the same moral monotheism that shaped Judaism and Christianity. You may dislike Islam, but calling it a cult only shows you have accepted caricature in place of comprehension.
When fear replaces understanding, people start mistaking neighbors for enemies. The idea that ‘good Muslims’ are a Trojan Horse is the same logic once used against Jews, Catholics, and Japanese Americans. It always sounds rational until history looks back at it. You say there is no way to differentiate between peaceful Muslims and extremists because they are ‘schooled in lying and deception,’ yet the record shows otherwise. After 9/11, American Muslim communities helped law enforcement prevent more terrorist plots than any other group. They have lower crime rates and higher educational attainment than the national average. If that is a Trojan Horse, it is one that has built schools, businesses, and charities, not armies.
So let me ask you directly: what would it take for you to believe a Muslim is sincere about peaceful coexistence? If your answer is ‘nothing,’ if every sign of goodwill is reinterpreted as deceit, then you have built an unfalsifiable belief where Muslims are guilty no matter what they do. That is not security thinking; that is ideology searching for an enemy. Judge people by their character, not by the worst of their group. The alternative, treating 3.5 million American Muslims as enemy infiltrators, is precisely what the Constitution was written to prevent. Muslims have lived as citizens, scientists, and soldiers under every form of government, including democracies, without conspiring to overthrow them.
As for the claim about deception, I am a practicing Muslim who prays five times a day and believes the Quran is divine revelation. Islam does not teach deceit as doctrine. The Quran condemns lying and commands justice even toward opponents. The term you are referring to, taqiyya, was a narrow protection for believers hiding under threat of death, like a Jew concealing his faith in Nazi Europe, not a license for infiltration. The real danger is not in difference. It is in refusing to see people as more than the fears projected onto them.
I hear anger in what you have written, and I recognize it; I felt it too when I saw Islam practiced as culture and control rather than as faith. But I had to ask myself: was I rejecting what people did, or what God actually revealed?
The Islam you are describing, where men use faith to justify weakness and desire, is not in the Quran. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) lived in radical opposition to that. He was raised by a woman, married a successful businesswoman fifteen years his senior, and taught that paradise lies at the feet of mothers. The first martyr of Islam was a woman who refused to recant under torture. The first scholar was a woman. These are not exceptions; they are the foundation.
You mentioned forced conversion as proof of Islam’s falsehood. But ‘there is no compulsion in religion’ (Quran 2:256) was not just poetry; it shaped how Muslim civilizations actually governed for centuries. Jews and Christians held high offices in Muslim Spain, Baghdad, and Istanbul. That is historical record, not imagination.
I am not saying Muslims never failed these principles. We did and do. But when we fail, we are betraying Islam, not fulfilling it.
Here is what I would ask you to consider: when our understanding of something comes primarily from those who abuse it, how do we know we are judging the thing itself? If someone only knew Christianity through the Crusades, or knew medicine only through eugenics, would they understand those fields? What would it take for you to examine the primary sources themselves, not through the lens of your experience, but on their own terms?
I am not asking you to believe. I am asking whether you are willing to distinguish between the map and the territory.
@KingDrayz@hieb_ali@WallStreetApes If you even read part of it, you would see it commands mercy, honesty, and justice, and warns against evil. The Quran denounces oppression, arrogance, and judging others without knowledge. You have not read it, you read those who hate it. You accuse ignorance while proving it.
@common_phenom@hieb_ali@WallStreetApes You’re describing extremists, not Islam. The Quran forbids forced conversion and commands respect for other faiths. Millions of Muslims live peacefully in every country. Claiming they want domination while hinting at violence yourself is the same extremism you fear…
@DullHargraves@hieb_ali@WallStreetApes If misery truly defined Muslims, there wouldn’t be over a billion who find peace, purpose, and gratitude in their faith every day. You’re confusing extremists with believers who pray, smile, raise families, and serve others. You’re describing the few, not the faith…
@egod0x@AntiWokeMemes Islam forbids harming innocents and calls for justice and mercy. If you judge a faith by the actions of a few, then by your logic every belief system would be condemned. Don’t fight hate with the same blind hate, as it only proves you’ve joined what you claim to oppose…
@egod0x@AntiWokeMemes You accuse Islam of extremism while doing the exact same thing. Taking one phrase or verse out of context and turning it into your entire worldview is what real extremists do. You’re mirroring the very mindset you claim to hate.
@MonkeyPhart@egod0x@AntiWokeMemes Smiling at others, caring for neighbors, and protecting the weak are all part of it. If you studied it instead of slogans, you’d see it isn’t in conflict with the Constitution. It calls for the same justice and human dignity that America was meant to stand for.
@MonkeyPhart@egod0x@AntiWokeMemes You’re confusing culture, politics, and faith. Islam is followed by nearly two billion people who live under every form of government, including democracies. Sharia isn’t a single political code but a moral framework built on honesty, kindness, family, and justice.