Queen C 🦄

curly-haired selenophile🌒🌓🌔🌕🌖🌗🌘🌑

I make fudgy brownies.

[Queen C 🦄 @ChandiniDeee]

The best moments of my life ❤

[ꪝe @_wej01]

just saw a girl say her little cousin pointed at her boyfriend during dinner and asked: “Why does he smile at strangers nicer than he smiles at you?” The entire table apparently went dead silent 😭 She said her boyfriend tried laughing it off but even the grandma stopped eating for a second. And honestly children really be exposing dynamics adults work VERY hard to ignore.

Me:

[Queen C 🦄 @ChandiniDeee]

Congrats to my nose and upper respiratory tract for being clear after 2.5 weeks of being congested.

[LLONER 🦅🪐 @eyojoel77]

I remember dating someone who would often share her feelings and expectations with me. She was essentially telling me how to love and treat her. Although I listened, I didn't truly apply what she said because I was still figuring myself out and assumed she'd always be around. To my surprise, she eventually left and ceased all communication. At first, I felt betrayed and harbored resentment towards her. However, I soon realized that she had been communicating her needs all along, while I had chosen to act according to my own whims. The lesson here is: if someone consistently communicates with you and your actions don't align with their messages, don't be taken aback when they choose to distance themselves. This holds true for all types of relationships, including friendships.

[Queen C 🦄 @ChandiniDeee]

Having such a shit time since last week
Wtf even

[Queen C 🦄 @ChandiniDeee]

Yes, underestimate me and piss me off more, so that it will be easier to cut you off.

[erys @lxverys]

there’s something so intimate about being handled gently by someone who knows how heavy your mind gets

[Queen C 🦄 @ChandiniDeee]

Increasingly finding it a struggle to tolerate things and people that dont align with what I can tolerate.

[Queen C 🦄 @ChandiniDeee]

All I am is of my own learning. Through observations and experiences. I wish I had a guide growing up, but this very trait made me naturally guide others. Im the person I wish I had growing up.🥲

[Queen C 🦄 @ChandiniDeee]

The number of instances where Ive noticed women/girls not washing their hands after using the toilet... I wonder if their partners are aware of the hygiene level.

[Queen C 🦄 @ChandiniDeee]

@ohmygayu OMG not just me then?? Like no close mutuals idk like who sent you!?

[Queen C 🦄 @ChandiniDeee]

Why do I get some kind of anxiety when a random girl wants to follow me.

[𝓲𝓬𝓮 @be_like_ice]

Nothing will ruin a relationship for me faster than watching your partner showing up for other people in a way they don't show up for you. You have capacity, just not for our relationship? No thanks. Goes for friendship, too!

[Sophia ❣️ @KeruboSk]

"what made you finally detach?"

i asked myself if this is how i want to be loved for the rest of my life. if the silence, the half effort, and the constant feeling of being unseen were all i would ever receive. i realized love shouldn't feel like begging for small pieces of care. it shouldn't feel lonely even when someone is beside you. little by little, something inside me grew tired. not angry, not bitter, just tired. that was the moment i slowly let go. because i finally understood that staying where i feel unvalued would only teach my heart to accept less than it deserves.

[David @Justtdavid_]

nobody talks about how exhausting it is to live in that space between “things will get better” and “i can’t handle this anymore.” it’s like your emotions are constantly swinging. leaving you both hopeful and defeated in the same day

[Dr. God Abeg ooo @josh_uglyasf]

Nobody prepares you for the amount of pain and grief you experience when you have to forgive yourself for believing someone was actually a good kind genuine person. The hardest part isn't just their betrayal, it's the shame you carry for ignoring your instincts, for giving your best to someone who only mirrored what you wanted to see.

[Mr PitBull Stories @MrPitbull07]

My wife and I had been married for 9 years.
I’m 38. She’s 36. We have a 5-year-old daughter.

I was never unfaithful to her.
I never mistreated her.
I never let money run short at home.
I thought that was enough.

Three months ago she asked me for a divorce.

“I’m not happy anymore,” she told me.

She didn’t yell.
She didn’t cry.
She didn’t accuse me of anything.

She just kept repeating:

“I feel alone with you.”

That made me furious.
Alone?
I worked 10 hours a day for them.
I paid for everything.
I never went out with friends.

“What more do you want?” I asked her.

Her answer was short.

“For you to look at me when I talk to you.”

I stayed silent.
That night I went over our last year.
There were no affairs.
There was no violence.
There were no big fights.
Just small absences.

Dinners staring at the phone.
Conversations interrupted.
“We’ll talk later.”

It was never a scandal.

It was a silent wearing down.

We signed the divorce papers last week.

Yesterday I went to pick up my daughter.

My ex opened the door.
She smiled. She looked calm.
She wasn’t with anyone else.
There was no other man.

There was only peace.

While I was driving back, I finally understood something no one ever tells you:
You won’t lose your partner only because of what you do wrong.
You can also lose her because of what you stop doing.
And indifference is a slow form of abandonment.

Credit: @/VargasKevi23363

[Queen C 🦄 @ChandiniDeee]

Dont be complacent that your relationship has gone through everything until one of you loses a parent.

[Queen C 🦄 @ChandiniDeee]

Jst need yo get thru this week. So much happening internally, realistically, existentially

[k @alfkkifine]

My boyfriend noticed I’d been quiet for a few days and didn’t pressure me to explain. He just started doing small things. He charged my phone when it was low. Filled my water bottle before bed. Sent me “I’m here” texts instead of “what’s wrong” texts. One night, I finally broke down and told him everything I’d been holding in, and he didn’t interrupt me once. He didn’t try to fix it. He didn’t make it about himself. He just held my hand and listened.

A week later, nothing had changed between us. He didn’t treat me like I was fragile. He didn’t bring it up to use against me. He just loved me the same, steady and normal.

That’s when I realized real love isn’t loud. It’s safe. It doesn’t rush you. It doesn’t punish you for being human. It stays.

[Sophia ❣️ @KeruboSk]

All she wants in 2026 is for her whole nervous system to finally rest. She is tired of being in survival mode, tired of always bracing herself for the next problem, she wants days that feel calm and nights where she can sleep without her thoughts racing.

She wants to wake up without heaviness in her chest and go through the day without feeling overwhelmed.
She is begging for a year where her spirit can breathe, her mind can slow down, and life feels gentle again. A year where she can heal and begin to find herself again.
I wish you the kind of healing where your nervous system unlearns survival and remembers peace.