sad post warning:
ive been putting off posting this for a few days now but i ended up talking about it on my stream so im saying it here to let you all know. cat was breathing kind of weirdly so we took him to the vet
If you're both into each other "Can I kiss you?" "Can I take your shirt off?" "Do you wanna do this?" Will NOT ruin the mood. Neither will "Do you like the way I'm doing this?" Consent is SO important, as is making sure the person you're with is actually experiencing pleasure.