the hottest form of dominance is honestly just competence. knowing where we’re going. making the reservation. ordering when i can’t decide. moving me to the inside of the sidewalk. “come with me.” “eat.” “sleep.” “i’ll sort it.” yeah… i’m listening.
Calling your boo throughout the day & being able to count on someone to be there for you is so comforting. 🥹❤️ Especially when your day is going bad or you’re feeling overwhelmed. 🫂💗
emotional unavailability is the biggest turn off honestly that and poor communication. you’re not gonna treat me like i’m crazy for wanting to talk with you and be around you