Maybe you don’t get the whole situation…. To win an argument against a women isn’t by talking back at her while she’s ranting, IMO there are only two things you could do in that situation;
1. Either to leave
2. To allow her express herself then later when her emotions are calm y’all can talk about the situation but not at that moment because talking back at her only escalate the situation and that will hurt your ego more as a man.
My thought tho and that’s what I’ve seen that worked for so many people.
You might have a different opinion tho