One of the biggest hacks I’ve learnt as a new wife is this:
Never ask a man what he feels like eating!
They NEVER know!! 😭
Anything ke? 😭 Can’t they just be specific?
Anyway, Don’t ask.
Just cook whatever you feel like eating…
they’ll happily eat it. 😂
I may "play the game" with a woman if that's what she responds to. Many young, urban women today do. But, generally, I'm drawn to women who don't require games in the first place.
If I do play along, I protect myself. She only gets a curated version of me. I'm never as natural as I would otherwise be, and I know from the outset that I'll never commit to her, regardless of how attached she becomes.
For me, it's simple: either you embody the qualities I value, or you don't. That's my standard. I don't resent women who fall outside it, nor do I try to change them. Ironically, in my experience, they're often the ones who take offense at the fact that you won't compromise your standards. I’m open to explaining and listening, but I don't negotiate on them.
I also reject the idea that I should fundamentally change myself to appeal to women. I'm the one who bears the long-term costs and consequences of becoming someone I'm not—not the women who rewarded the performance.
Can I adapt? Haha, sure. Even though it becomes exhausting rather quickly, I can easily display the traits the average woman tends to reward if that's the dynamic she prefers. Likewise, I can be completely natural with women whose dispositions make that unnecessary.
Many women will insist they're healthy. That's fine. The more manipulative ones may even think they can easily have their way with me. That's fine too. I'm not claiming to be especially wise. I may even be naïve. But I'm still not committing.
What I'm looking for is my wife—mine. So I apply the same standard of judgment to that decision as I would to any of the most important decisions of my life. I'm not looking for merely a beautiful woman who knows the right things to say.
I can also recognize women who no longer reward toxic behavior because they've grown tired of "playing games." I can respect that growth—the desire to build healthier relationships with men and even with themselves. But I'm still not committing.
2009 Messi
2010 Messi
2011 Messi
2012 Messi
2013 Ronaldo
2014 Ronaldo
2015 Messi
2016 Ronaldo
2017 Ronaldo
2018 Modric
2019 Messi
2020 ——-
2021 Messi
2022 Benzema
2023 Messi
Messi shared 14 Ballon D’Or between himself and Real Madrid players.
Messi won 8 and Real Madrid won 6
Can you see Messi biggest rival wasn’t Ronaldo but Florentino Perez?
Messi went to war with an institution and won.
GOAT🐐
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