Chikoro

[Chikoro @ChikoroPanda]

@man_brotherhood @NYSCO33 @ilovegordinhas2 Okay then. It is what it is. Have a good day.

[Chikoro @ChikoroPanda]

@man_brotherhood @NYSCO33 @ilovegordinhas2 You claim you’re in a crisis, but you just want all the jobs and all the money and power to yourself. You want DOGS, you don’t want women. The women you complain who are bitches are in fact right in your aisle. Take your own advise and be kind and loyal.

[Chikoro @ChikoroPanda]

@man_brotherhood @NYSCO33 @ilovegordinhas2 How about you work on bring WOMEN back. & we’ll work on earning you guys. Don't victimize yourself when you’re perfectly fine. It’s this unequal mindset that keeps you single. If everyone, man & woman, just stopped being so whiny, we might get along better and be more accepting.

[Chikoro @ChikoroPanda]

@man_brotherhood @NYSCO33 @ilovegordinhas2 You don’t need roles to form healthy relationships. You need humanity. Love. Understanding.

[Chikoro @ChikoroPanda]

@man_brotherhood @NYSCO33 @ilovegordinhas2 Back in the day men beat their wives and turned them into baby machines and abused them beyond human understanding. Is that the stable, perfect society of gender roles you idolize?

[Chikoro @ChikoroPanda]

@man_brotherhood @NYSCO33 @ilovegordinhas2 You say all this assuming that every man wants what you want. You say society will die b/c of lack of gender roles, but I look around right now and see thousands of happy couples who are not bound by gender roles. Men are not forgotten, you just want to think you are.

[Chikoro @ChikoroPanda]

@man_brotherhood @NYSCO33 @ilovegordinhas2 Why can’t you love people for who they are just like we should? We’re ALL rotten in this modern world because everyone’s so focused on gender roles & societal expectations they forget about ACTUALLY loving each other enough evolve and change for the better together. Man & woman.

[Chikoro @ChikoroPanda]

@man_brotherhood @NYSCO33 @ilovegordinhas2 Okay, some of this makes sense, but what do you mean “wear sundresses” and “don’t be loud?” “Make lemonade?” That’s so singular. Why are you resisting us to such bs? Why don’t men follow this? Do you have to be loyal? Do you have to give actual love? Be honest? Not be loud?

[Chikoro @ChikoroPanda]

@man_brotherhood @NYSCO33 @ilovegordinhas2 & so are men, modern are not. I don’t like this thing some people do when you define the whole gender as one thing, male or female, black & white. It’s not about what we are. It’s about knowing how to make healthy relationships, which a lot of both genders are incapable of, sir.

[Chikoro @ChikoroPanda]

@man_brotherhood @NYSCO33 @ilovegordinhas2 I didn’t say I was offended I wasn’t being chosen. I don’t want you to be attracted to me, and I’m happy it’s that way. But listen. You can have preferences, but you can’t call black women trash compared to you just because you don’t fancy us. That’s called racism, by definition.

[Chikoro @ChikoroPanda]

@TomJons39163997 @MdSan343081 @EssenceUnveiled It was really nice talking to you, genuinely. I appreciate that you didn’t get hostile or anything. Have a nice day

[Chikoro @ChikoroPanda]

@TomJons39163997 @MdSan343081 @EssenceUnveiled To end my argument, I’d say that it’s not even about roles anymore. You can’t group one gender together, man or woman, and assume that we all feel the exact same about roles. I say a good relationship is built off of love for each other and empathy rather than who does what.

[Chikoro @ChikoroPanda]

@man_brotherhood @NYSCO33 @ilovegordinhas2 It’s racist, that’s what it is. “Pavement apes,” you call us? You can have a preference in women, bud, I won’t judge you for being more attracted to white women, but if you claim that white is just instantly better, and we are animals, you’ve forgotten that we’re all human.

[Chikoro @ChikoroPanda]

@TomJons39163997 @MdSan343081 @EssenceUnveiled But getting back to the topic of discussion (sorry) if a woman or a man feels forced to conform to a societal expectation like “women should be happy to clean and cook” or “men should feel proud to work, make income, & nothing else” then aren’t they slaves in that case as well?

[Chikoro @ChikoroPanda]

@TomJons39163997 @MdSan343081 @EssenceUnveiled Do you know that there are men out there who feel trapped because they are limited to the societal expectations you have just listed for me? A man doesn’t have to work 24/7 if he wants to either. He can share that burden with his wife, and they can both work to make balance.

[Chikoro @ChikoroPanda]

@TomJons39163997 @MdSan343081 @EssenceUnveiled But saying it’s “natural” for a woman to want that life is not being inclusive of all the women who ALSO do just as much work as a man does & own just as much income. Not every woman enjoys cleaning & cooking. Just like not every man enjoys working. Some actually like housework.

[Chikoro @ChikoroPanda]

@TomJons39163997 @MdSan343081 @EssenceUnveiled Sorry I fell asleep, but, with all respect, some of the points you’re making aren’t very open-minded. Yes, some women love chores. My grandmother is a nurse and although she overworks herself, the kitchen is like her habitat.

[Chikoro @ChikoroPanda]

@TomJons39163997 @MdSan343081 @EssenceUnveiled Okay fine, that makes sense. I should have worded it differently. Being in a relationship shouldn’t make either one feel like they’re being held hostage by strict conditions for who does chores or whatnot. But you can’t make the woman do everything b/c of “roles”, or the man.

[Chikoro @ChikoroPanda]

@hiscoraline changing a character’s race in general is not ok. If you want representation make an OC. DO NOT disrespect a character’s original race, how the creator intended it. It‘s wrong to make a black character white (especially Tiana) and to make a white character black. the end.

[Chikoro @ChikoroPanda]

@leavening_agent @Lapatate005 @hiscoraline That’s just plain racist. do you know how many black doctors, lawyers, architects, engineers, designers, etc. there are? We’re all fucking human beings, why is that so hard for YOU to understand?