I have no problem with 50/50.
But the moment I start contributing financially to the household monthly, you also start contributing domestically.
You will cook too.
Clean too.
Do laundry too.
Wash toilets too.
Bathe the children too.
Go to the market too.
You cannot demand 50/50 bills while expecting me to carry 100% of the house chores and childcare.
If we are both acting like providers, then we are both acting like homemakers too.
Paying bills can help with comfort, but it does not create emotional safety.
Her soft side comes out when she feels protected, heard, respected, and safe being vulnerable with you. Money can assist the environment, but it cannot replace character.
I don’t support evil, infidelity coming from a woman dey pain una, but coming from a man is a normal thing in our society! They tell the woman, forgive. The same way it hurts a man, is the same way a woman is hurt! We should fear God & do the right thing so we have a sane society