I just dont care to be super understanding to no man. Its not my ministry. Men truly feel like their needs and wants should overshadow yours. & what they go through should be an excuse for how they act to you.
Hardest pill to swallow is realizing people DO NOT CARE. They’ll hurt you & really go on about their lives. Not even slightly affected about what they did to you & how you feel. Regardless if it’s friendships, relationships, or family.
No sad shit but adulthood is so lonely. You can be a great friend to everybody but when you down and out and going through things who there for you? Truly an eye opening experience but noted.
my turn offs:
1. lying
2. disrespectful "jokes"
3. replying late for no reason
4. lack of communication
5. lack of consideration
6. being toxic for no absolute reason
7. being too lustful
8. inconsistency
9. bad hygiene
10. lying
11. lying
12. lying