Your entire nervous system relaxes when your finances are in order. Most anxiety is not a mental health problem. It is a cash flow problem. Fix the money first.
yโall have no respect for the ppl who make your life easier. the person making your morning coffee deserves a livable wage. the person stocking the groceries you buy deserves a livable wage. the person cleaning the restrooms in the office you work at deserves a livable wage.
If youโre an anxious person, do everything for fun. Go to a job interview for fun. Submit documents for fun. Start a blog for fun. Anxiety feeds on importance. Donโt make everything a matter of life and deaลฅh.
This is free advice from an expensive psychologist.
I'LL SAY IT AGAIN:
IT SHOULD BE ILLEGAL to charge a "convenience fee" for paying a bill online. The convenience is for the company. The fee is for you.
Shonen/JRPG rivalries do gay codependent shit like this just to make the canon romances so boring like what do you mean they share a song that keeps their hearts in tune with each other vs Sora and Kairi ate a fruit one time when they were kids wtf am I supposed to take from that
I JUST HEARD SOMEONE SAY
"MAYBE YOU DON'T NEED MORE TIME TO HEAL, MAYBE YOU NEED MORE EXPERIENCES THAT SHOW YOUR NERVOUS SYSTEM A DIFFERENT REALTY"
AND, YEAH.
Michael B. Jordanโs advice for anyone feeling stuck in life
โWhen youโre feeling the most trapped and down and nothing can go right, those are the moments that define you. People quit right before they get what theyโve always wantedโ
โHaving the name Michael Jordan, knowing there was another Michael Jordan who was the best ever got me teased and picked on. For a moment, it made me not want to play sports but then I was like nah, Iโm going to compete. It gave me a healthy chipโ
โFor the people who are listening who feel like they canโt change their circumstances, just hold on. Just endure. Look at things differently. Challenge yourself to see the glass half fullโ
โFind something that resonates with you, find your intuition within that thing and be obsessed about itโ
No one is forcing you to stay at that soul-crushing job,โ yes they are.
The threat of rent, bills, and homelessness is extremely coercive. Stop pretending choice exists in this setup.