My mom had a medical abortion before my brother or I were born. The fetus had developed with most of its organs on the outside of the body. At the time, it would have survived hours or maybe days in complete agony. This is why abortion should be accessible.
Hmofa types are sometimes scared to ask questions like "if your own species doesn't want you, what makes you think another's will?"
Same goes for most xenophiles.
True romance is difficult to take serious when the only requirement is to "show up and be human."