❀Shula❀

Writer| Registered Nurse and Midwife 🩺 | BNsc.

[❀Shula❀ @cicitude]

The first time I watched a patient die, I was a student.
ICU. I stood there watching the monitor. The numbers kept dropping slowly, like they had somewhere to be and nothing was going to stop them.
Nobody was rushing. That was the part that got me. The monitor just kept beeping and beeping. And then less beeping.

I kept waiting for someone to do something but there was nothing to do.

I thought about it for weeks afterward. How one minute a person is there and then they just aren’t.
How the body gives you a countdown and there’s nothing to do but watch.

It taught me something I couldn’t have learned in a classroom: life is fickle in a way that the word “fickle” doesn’t fully cover.

You just get used to it. You learn to separate yourself from it, go home, eat your food, sleep. And one day you just realize death stopped scaring you and you don’t know exactly when that happened.

[Elaunire @elaunireMD]

On this Pentazocine issue, patients will whine you.

Once I notice the patient trying so hard to get penta, I tell the nurse to administer Aquapenta and it works like magic.

[Jennifer @Uchechukwu_Jeny]

After a breakup, a man will come out and brag about everything he does for a woman, you people will back him up, but when a woman does same, suddenly it’s “no let woman feed you”
The hypocrisy is glaring.

[Jola @Jollz]

The same reason we are hearing of “male loneliness epidemic” when the “old and lonely lady with cats” trope has been a joke for DECADES

[Vampz @Hybrid_Ola]

Moving forward peacefully, but you accused her of cheating and opened her up to drags!!!

She came out to defend herself, saying she never cheated, but now you suddenly want to get back to work.

Ogaju.

[ANI @isoaniekan1]

In all these, Can we all conclude that the Men cheated first and their Wife's retaliated.?

[Ifenkili✨ @Dr_Austa]

I’m just embarrassed by the women crying about prenup. In this same world your mates are initiating that conversation, and negotiating terms because they have value to protect.

Prioritise working on yourself and your career, emancipate yourself from slavery.

[𝓑𝓲𝓰 𝓜𝓪𝓻𝓪🧚🏾‍♀️🪬🪽 @_ama_rachi]

No part of childbearing appeals to me.
Not the pregnancy stage, the birthing stage, the breast feeding stage or the lifelong devotion stage. None.

[OLUWAFEYISAYO ❤️❤️ @Feyisparkles]

This is why you must hold your pastors accountable so they can retract their statements 🤣

[Adelanke @yapperaholicc]

What’s your take on men peeing by the roadside?

[Raymonte @BDTRELILBROTHER]

I’m sorry but a dating history of 13 men is not outrageous for a 45 year old woman, especially when one of those relationships was a marriage close to a decade. People really hold women in the public eye to unrealistic standards when it comes to their dating history

[❀Shula❀ @cicitude]

@Bigdebs222 @geenaabiti Well, now they're praising him for signing a prenup

[Risi Arab Money @OyinLadun0]

If your wife is a cheater,confess righteousness out of her.Look at her with tears “Honey,I know what you did,I know it was very very bad,but you are the righteous of God In Christ Jesus,you are a holy woman of God” every time there is darkness,speak light.

[EA has her PVC @virtuousii]

“I can’t eat one meal for the rest of my life” merchants are crying all over the tl.

[legal fantasy💜💋 @Cyndi_Carson]

So you people can see how dumb it is asking someone to stay and pray for their cheating spouse

[jonzing. @ehisssss]

7 things i’d like to experience atleast once:

a surprise birthday party
"it's you, it's always been you." drunk confession
running into someones arms
01:48 of champagne coast
being in someones wallet
kiss in the rain

[Daddy Kross @daddy_kross]

Share???

Bro, these people can’t even bear to think about the fact that their women have been with other men in the past. They worry so much about women’s body counts. They get jealous of every man that was with her before they met her.

These are the same men that want to have more than one wives.

Fucking selfish idiots!

[📖🎧 @inkandseerah]

can we normalize saying we love a book without remembering anything about it.

[FANTA SIPPER🍹💶👸 @Anambra_girl]

Infidelity annoys me so much!!!!! Respect your spouse!!!! Respect your union!!!! Have some dignity!!! Have some self respect!!

Why is it so hard???!

[Oiza @Steadi_lady]

To the married man who his wife cheated: “so sorry my brother”

To the deadbeat father who refused to take responsibility for his child: “Dont pay, she’s a stupid woman”

To the man who married a 2nd wife, much to the displeasure of his 1st wife: “Congrat, na man you be 🙌”

💀😂

[the pressure @larabillionaire]

People will bare their souls on here and talk about being cheated on, and some of you will start mocking them for being in love or being loud about their love.

Just wicked and senseless. How is their fault that the other party is a generational fool?