Hukum onani adalah haram, sama ada lelaki mahupun perempuan.
Dibenarkan hanya jika ia dilakukan oleh pasangan yang halal.
Sama juga jika suami isteri yang berjauhan dan cuba berasmara atas talian, haram baginya untuk onani.
Kadang kadang apa yg kita rancang takkan run smoothly according to what we want but yakinlah Allah’s plan is always always better.
Allah TAHU masa depan kita & Allah will give us THE best.
Sebelum ni i selalu tanya my son “hows school” or “how’s your day?” but dia macam taknak bercerita.
Now everyday before tidur i start bercerita dengan dia about my day - “do you want to know what i did today?”
“Johan, something funny happened to me”
And slowly dia pun excited nak bercerita
Let them think what they want about you. Let them say what they want about you. Let them do what they want against you. Let them plan your downfall. Nothing happens except what the Almighty has decreed. In the end, victory will be yours.
Bagaimana Nak “Reach Out” Kepada Mereka Yang Sedang Berjuang (dalam konteks kesihatan mental)
Kita selalu dengar:
“Kalau kau tak okay, reach out.”
Tapi banyak yang kurang faham satu perkara penting:
Orang yang tengah struggle terkadang tak tahu macam mana nak minta tolong.
Even when you think everything has been decided, you still have Allah. So hold on to your prayers & keep your faith.
What’s with Allah is much greater.
Saya harap masyarakat tidak lagi menggunakan mi kuning/mi segera. Ianya tidak sihat, banyak garam & preservatif. Boleh guna mihun, spaghetti, sbg alternatif.
Saya guna mi bayam organik, tanpa preservatif. Rempah Mi Bandung dari Muar.
Kopi kosong,
Air kosong.
Mintalah apa apa dekat Allah walaupun kita rasa mustahil nya lah benda tu nak berlaku. Mintalah dekat Allah sekecil kecil perkara.
Allah tu Maha Mendengar. Sebab tu orang cakap tugas kita hanya percaya & yakin Allah takkan sia siakan doa hambaNya.
Ask the Almighty for protection from knowledge that’s not beneficial, a heart that doesn’t fear, a soul that’s never satisfied and a prayer that’s not answered. Focus on the right things in life and do what pleases Him.
The fact, kesakitan daripada "dia" yang kau fikir takdir itulah yang menjadikan takdir2 kau jauh lebih indah dan hebat sekarang.
Allah lebih mengetahui. ❤️
Don’t waste time searching for perfection. Not in this world. Do your best. Accept things and trust the Almighty along the way. Remember, He doesn’t expect you to be perfect. He just wants you to try.