People lack accountability and then say “you could’ve talked to me.” No, I couldn’t. You don’t listen or you deflect. You turn every concern into an attack, twist the conversation and somehow make yourself the victim. Talking to you doesn’t bring resolution, it leaves me exhausted. I don’t owe my peace to someone who only wants a conversation to win an argument instead of understand what I’m saying.
PLEASE avoid eggshell type of relationships, can't express yourself, can't be yourself, can't be straight forward, can't be comfortable, can't talk like adults, can't be heard, can't respond with love without it actually turning into something negative...