@maxvayshia What we need is community policing, directly accountable to the people, not state police governor will use to torture opposition. There are vigilantes in every community. Employ and pay 1000 per LG, from each community. That's a 776,000 force. Larger than the army or police.
If you think it Logically, when women say :
“If you cheat on me as a Man, I’ll cheat back”
Logically, it’s an Objectively-driven-manipulative-way to put you on Check not to cheat so that the woman you claim you value & love wouldn’t auction herself in repayment for your actions as a Man.
If you don’t want your woman to sleep with another man which a man wouldn’t tolerate or want to witness, you’ll remain Loyal to her, that is what it’s suppose to mean, which is right by all standards.
In Women’s reality, when a woman have that kind of mindset, majority of the time it’s a gaslighting-driven-trap for a woman who is likely to cheat, she’ll wait till the perfect time you play into her hands, She knows Men chances of cheating on her is high, so once you AGREE to that clause, it’ll be a justification for her cheating on you in future which she’ll bring as evidence & valid argument so as to get forgiveness, she also likely to use the same point as defense if she’s being caught by gaslighting you that you once cheated even if she can’t provide evidence.
When girls with that kind of mindset want to cheat & you’ve not crossed the line yet, they’ll start accusing you wrongly of cheating to create enough ground to land on.
I don’t support cheating either moderately or recklessly in Men, but it’ll be stupid as a Man to stick around a woman that have the “If you cheat I’ll cheat back” mindset.
I’ll rather go for a woman who is in support of Polygamy & I’ll tell her I’ll remain monogamous until she start moving in a way that make me consider polygamy. I’m not good in cheating, I’ll get caught very fast & I don’t believe anyone is good at cheating, you’re just under someone who isn’t smart. If you’re not cheating as a man it gives you an edge to catch a cheating woman. This Popular saying that “WOMEN HARDLY GET CAUGHT WHEN CHEATING” is a delusional statement, By reading someone’s face, body language, information & countenance you can tell if they’ve a divide mind or not, so why should I be stupid enough not to find out ? There would be SIGNS.
SIMI through her old tweets shows she has a Psychiatric disorder known as “Pedophilic Disorder” in one word she’s a “Pedophile” but that doesn’t take away her exceptionalism as a Talented Singer.
CHIKE is an Adulterer, which is Morally wrong, ground for divorce, causes emotional distresses & Religiously a Sin but doesn’t invalidate that he’s a super Talented Singer.
R.KELLY used his fame & entourage to abuse & coerce women & underage girls on that ground, he was investigated & convicted for federal racketeering, sex trafficking, and producing child pornography, that’s another super talented Singer right there.
The 3 subject as Sample sizes here, under recognized Rule of Laws, 2 is a Punishable Offense while 1 is not, but the 3 acts are WRONG.
LET ME TAKE A TWIST HERE..!!!!
If you Localize this example & import it to my defunct-ethnic-Yoruba-Culture-Rule-of-the-Lands, the 3 acts are a SIN.
While justice is served on these 3 cases in my ethnic group, Kings/Princes/Warlords forcefully take over people’s Wives/Fiancées even if you’ve balls you dare not fight back due to influence, power & might. Let me deviate a bit into inter-town rivalry/wars that leads to casualties of lives, taking over people’s wives, children killed to wipe away offspring of men killed, captured people turn to slaves, forceful ownership of lands, taxes on harvest etc which are GOOD to some people & to an extent BAD to some people.
I’m not where I’m going but I’m close, I’ve heard people say if you’ve done anything RIGHT or WRONG your conscience will judge you, you don’t need anyone to tell you, but is it truly your conscience that judges or it’s PEOPLE who determine what’s GOOD & BAD which serves as a Back-end-server for the conscience to survive on ??
Who exactly determine what’s GOOD & BAD ?? Are GOOD truly GOOD ? Are BAD truly BAD ? Don’t you think GOOD & BAD can be manipulated & be used interchangeably ?
I’m of the Opinion that what I majorly think are RIGHT/GOOD is dominant in me due to some determinants, same Logic apply to WRONG/BAD.
Does CONSCIENCE self taught itself to determine what’s GOOD & BAD, RIGHT & WRONG or it’s PEOPLE who UNCONSCIOUSLY & CONSCIOUSLY programmed the CONSCIENCE ??
The same man that made "Awon Goons Mi" can still sing romantic ballads like "Melo Melo" and "Julie"
He can still trade bars on vicious tracks like "Voice of the Street"& "Hood Cypher"
He can still make melodious hits like "Bobo", "Eleda Mi" and "Turn Up".
Not melodious hits? He can still give you street classics like "Wo"
He can still produce, he can still A&R, he can still manage talents.
Olamide is the greatest to ever do it.
A stance I hold on to any day.