my mom once told me “SPOILING DONT ALWAYS INCLUDE MONEY! it includes time, attention, cooked meals, being there emotionally, physically and mentally! money comes and goes but how you make me feel is forever!” and i felt that.
heard my son get up and walk to the bathroom so i said “good morning”.
he said “oh i wasn’t waking up. i just needed to use the bathroom.”
and you know what… i feel that.
no one prepared me for the fact that when you have a 9-5 you can't like. go to the dentist or the doctor or anything anymore. because you work. and when you don't work they're closed