i deserve a calm relationship that's good for my mental health, heart, and nervous system. a lover who's my bestie, my safe space, and soothes my soul during stressful situations. Life is tough enough, i deserve someone who brings me peace, not problems.
You could be the best thing to ever happen to someone but if they not ready for you mentally, emotionally, or spiritually, your value will go unnoticed…
Never settle for a partner who is the complete opposite of what your love languages are and is unwilling to learn; you are signing up for a life of emotional and mental torture.
You didn't just ruin her.
You ruined places she loved.
You ruined things she loved.
You ruined her want for love.
You ruined what she thought love was.
You ruined how she views love.
You ruined love for her bro.