Continuing effect on him.
I’m terrified. He assures me he is committed, that he has made it clear.
He’s naive, or they are setting me up.
I’ve never felt like this before.
How do I move forward
My therapist said 70% of couples recover from this, and have a better marriage. It takes effort and time, up to 2 years.
I love him, despite it all. The communication in past 3 days has been more direct & honest than the past 5 years combined. /
Slowly but surely emerging back to reality, & letting go of the outcome (as if could control that anyway) has been freeing. Therapy is working wonders 💞
I’m starting with a new life coach tomorrow-this time it’s a man. Better insight for me. Bc I will no longer accept being a doormat. I am so worthy of fighting for.