Bringing this great post up from the replies. So much of heterosexual propaganda centers on the idea that a man's behavior must be the responsibility of a woman, and if he behaves badly then she didn't love him enough. That (false) thinking encourages women to try harder, give more, labor more and overfunction to make up for a man's deficits, in the believe that all her sacrifice (or control) will "pay off" with his behavioral change and more love.
Men are taught this falsehood too: That "the love of a good woman" is the only thing that will change their behavior, and if their behavior does not change, then the woman isn't good. This shifts the locus of control for a man's behavior onto the woman and creates the groundwork for men to refuse to be accountable or responsible for their own actions.
As this excellent post below points out, a man's behavior is his responsibility and his alone. Partners should be supportive to each other but that does NOT mean they can or should control each other's behavior. The "dreamgirl" myth is highly destructive to both women and men.
@moorehn The notion of a "dream girl" is really dangerous. I don't think it's any different from the idea that, in response to male violence, people ask, "What did you say/ do to make him do that to you?" Both narratives shift accountability away from men and place it on women
In that case, American taxpayer money should stop being used to bribe Egypt to play nice with Israel. If the Israelis are already plotting war in Egypt in 15 years, let's just save our money and see how that plays out.
ben & jerry (ben cohen & jerry greenfield) tried to boycott their ice cream from being sold in israel, so unilever went behind their back and sold a portion of the company to an israeli licensee against their wishes. israel is selling ben & jerry's through corporate domination
We Palestinians have an innate love for Egypt; its sorrows are our sorrows, and its joys are our joys. We celebrated the Egyptian national team's victory today as if Palestine itself were playing.❤️❤️
You know why there’s a Mexican duck and not a Canada Goose at this World Cup?
Because no Canadian would be insane enough to try putting a shirt on a Canada Goose. #FIFAWorldCup
She did NOT steal the diapers but even if she did IT’S NOT A CAPITAL LEVEL OFFENSE or even a FELONY in most states, the threshold is too low. Trigger happy cops playing judge jury and executioner over $50 diapers?!
We say Black Lives Matter because y’all need to be reminded
Trump on Egyptian President el-Sisi:
"He was in a hotel and I met him. We fell in love, deeply in love ... we didn't know each other before that. We had great chemistry, and I stayed twice as long as I was supposed to."