Thanks @SCougars for having the @NebraskaCoach out to share the @Proactivecoach insights of "The Role of Parents in Education-Based Athletics."
It was an honor to serve the five communities that encompass Sandy Creek HS.
Parents - Six powerful words, "I love to watch you play."
**RECORD BREAKING NIGHT**
**January 2, 2024**
Russ Ninemire, Douglas County West, becomes the Nebraska all-time leader in high school girls basketball coaching career wins with 639. DC West defeats Logan View-Scribner-Snyder.
#nebpreps@DCWestFalcons
Some WISDOM for Young Coaches.
I was a Head Coach at 26. A Principal at 33. I have been doing both for the last 11.
I have learned a lot about coaching and leadership.
Here are 9 of the most important things I have learned...
1: PLAYERS NOT PLAYS
In pressure situations, do not worry about plays. Focus on players. It is so easy to worry about a "play." In reality, players win. Get the ball in the "player's hand who will make the right "play."
2: LEARN the 20-40-60 RULE ASAP
The earlier you learn this as a coach, the better off you will be.
- In your 20's - you worry about what others think.
- In your 40's - you don't care what others think.
- In your 60's - you realize no one was thinking of you to begin with!
3: PLAY THE LONG GAME WITH CULTURE
Culture Wins. Culture is a long game, but culture is fragile. Culture is...
- What you Allow.
- What you Emphasize.
- Every Day.
Focus on your culture every day. Every decision you make defines your culture.
4: RELATIONSHIPS FIRST
Coaching is about managing and leading people. And leading people is always about relationships. Don't ever lose sight of this. Focus on people.
5: SIMPLICITY WINS
Can you explain your offensive or defensive philosophy in 8 words or less? You should. And your players should, too. Simple wins.
6: GIVE UP SOME CONTROL
As a young coach, I tried to control how we played. I coached BB like I coached FB, play-by-play. I have since learned to teach kids how to play and not try to control every movement. It is much more enjoyable for everyone, and success has followed.
7: FIND A GREAT MENTOR
I was lucky. I had a 30-year coaching legend as my assistant coach. His wisdom was priceless. One time, I had a sticky decision with a player/parent. I was grounded on principle. I was lucky to have my mentor.
8: CONNECT WITH COACHING COLLEAGUES
Coaching is hard. The skill set needed to do a good job is incredible. You are also on an island at times. Connect with your coaching colleagues on a personal level. The relationships are lifelong and priceless.
9: FAMILY FIRST
Don't lose sight of your time. Don't lose sight of your commitment. Always make time for your kids and family. Done right, raising kids in a coaching household has incredible rewards!
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“I am so proud of you.” — @SCougars coach Andrew Kuta to his team after their 44-24 win over Cross County
Ethan Shaw five TDs 177 yards passing, 96 rushing. Connor Rempe 92 rushing, 155 receiving (four scores).
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