David sat in caves not knowing if he’d live.
Hannah wept not knowing if she’d ever have a child.
Job sat in ashes not knowing why.
None of them suffered because they were bad people. They suffered because growth lives on the other side of uncertainty.
Every person who has ever built deep internal security, deep faith, deep emotional maturity has gone through seasons exactly like this one. Seasons where the only way through was learning to sit with not-knowing.
You don't show someone the most attractive version of yourself by needing them constantly. You show it by choosing them, freely, fully, and from a place of completeness.
When the body relaxes in the presence of someone you’re attracted to and emotionally connected to, it feels like warmth. Expansion. Softness. Almost like a quiet joy humming underneath everything.
It'll never stop amazing me that the movies which are considered the most romantic are movies about women cheating.
Titanic, The Notebook, Unfaithful, Eat Pray Love. Etc. List goes on.