@drewrhyde Sadly it happens far too often in our community. My ex isn't married to the guy he left me for but .....he walked out on our marriage all the same. I'm sorry for your pain. It is grief. And it was devastating for me for a long time. I found this quote helpful.
@JMMoore49316530 my husband left me & asked for a divorce a year ago now. It devastated me. this was the original & only joint account. He had one of his own he never told me about. It was mostly political stuff. if he has a new account, I'm unaware of it. So sorry I can't help you further.