@SirJarus As a man, you need wisdom. You must know when to be soft and when to be strict, without making your children resent you.
Don’t let the mother set you up as the “strict dad” while she secretly goes behind your back to comfort the child with biscuits. 😂
@BukkyOA Communication is key as it creates visibility and clarity in what you do.
However, you have to be strategic about it because there is a thin-line between communication and eye-service.
@TechnicalBben For those asking how much you need to lock-in:
1. Funds that can buy you foodstuff for at least 6mts - 1yr
2. Constant electricity, at least to charge your phone & laptop
3. Sub. to 6mts - 1yr Data
4. Pay 1yr rent ahead
5. Keep emergency fund
6 Free your urgent 2k Girlfriend