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@swixxknight @SirJarus Kolo muani and emi martinez are good actors 😀😀

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@iamdareel @SirJarus Which country won it by luck?

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@MurtalaAjagbe1 @DataOfStats Can't compare it with that.
16 yellow card 4 red
It was war

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@PlentyRabba @FOLA41419978 Why?

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@TeniTheMuse @felix_kantiok "Y'all overate yourselves"

So you mean men are not important in their spouse life. May God save us. This is an eye opener anyway

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@ADB_Gombe @khadijahzakari_ Tag them.
Let's hear from them.

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@mayorde4you2 @NedunckDefi Either way, he has lost.
All the best to him.

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@Chris_Power_ @xviddownload

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@YusufAsunmogejo @YusufAsunmogejo
Question
Is it permissible for a man to drink his wife milk?

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@YusufAsunmogejo May almighty Allah grant you more wisdom.
I enjoyed this.
Your full name, please. Just for reference purpose

[A.Y.O @YusufAsunmogejo]

Hello Lola, I am a Muslim, and our spiritual tradition has a very deep approach to raising children. I want to share some tips from our scholars that will be beneficial to you regardless of your faith.

First of all, our theology teaches the concept of Fitrah. This means that every child is born with a pure heart. At six years old, she is not a criminal mastermind. She does not have a wicked soul.

If she doesn’t have all these, then what is happening? The truth is that she is just lacking impulse control and testing boundaries. By this, if you look at her as a manipulator, you will fight her. However, if you look at her as a pure soul making mistakes, you will be able to guide her.

Secondly, for every problem anyone faces today, it has been solved in history. The only problem is how to locate them.

A classical scholar named Al-Ghazali wrote about child psychology over 900 years ago in his famous book “Ihya Ulum al-Din.” In his section on disciplining children, he gave a practical rule I want you to adopt going forward.

He advised that parents should never push a child into a corner where they are forced to lie. When you ask a question you already know the answer to, her survival instinct kicks in. She cries and she lies to defend herself because she is scared of you. Stop interrogating her. Just look at her and state the fact. Say, I know you took this, and we are going to return it right now.

Again, another scholar and sociologist Ibn Khaldun addressed this exact behavior in his masterpiece titled: “Al-Muqaddimah.” He warned that when a child is raised with harsh punishment, they learn deceit, trickery, and lying to protect themselves. This is why she is covering her tracks and crying to manipulate you. The fear of a harsh reaction is making her a better liar.

Lola, do not attach a label to her. Do not ever call her a thief. If you attack her identity instead of her action, she will internalize it and grow into that dark label. Tell her the action is wrong but protect her dignity.

Make her return the item. Do not fall for the tears. Hold her hand, walk her back to wherever she took it from, and make her hand it back and apologize. The discomfort of returning a stolen item teaches a much better lesson than beating her will ever do.

Finally, I don’t know if you are a Muslim, but never underestimate the power of your own words. In our faith, we believe the prayer of a parent for a child goes straight to God without any barrier. Pray over her. Pray for her heart to be content and for her character to be straight.

Keep doing this consistently and the habit will break.

Allah knows best.

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@YusufAsunmogejo May Almighty Allah reward you

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@nigeriainaction @Mz_Tosyn Look at how good comments were dropping until it got to your turn.

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@AMBI__FX @kingsuleiman27 What is this?

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@Mike5444 @KhadijaBarkindo @grok @Mike5444

What do you think?

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@justDozie94 @KhadijaBarkindo Counter her submission with proof

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@sashamdige @ProudPatriot677 @LBGamestips That's not true.
Qur'an 24:33, says that a woman has not sinned when compelled to commit this crime.

If you think otherwise, provide your proof

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Do you remember when you joined X? I do! #MyXAnniversary

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@GbagyiGirl @Nasskitcheneqpt @NigeriaStories This is hypocrisy. Your tweets says alot