If you have nothing kind to say, saying nothing at all really is the better option.
Some fans get so caught up in “defending” and “protecting” their favorite artists that they end up doing far more harm than good. You’re not protecting them by attacking their friends, coworkers, staff, other artists, or random people online. Most of the time, you’re just creating unnecessary drama and putting the very person you claim to protect in an uncomfortable position.
Being a fan is supposed to be FUN. Post the cute moments. Make memes. Hype their work. Share things that make people smile. And if being in a fandom constantly makes you angry, suspicious, defensive, or miserable, maybe it’s time to take a break from social media for a while.
And please stop reading hidden meanings and malicious intentions into absolutely everything. We only see tiny, carefully selected parts of these artists’ lives. No matter how much they share online, how long you’ve supported them, how many events you’ve attended, or how much money you’ve spent on them, we are not their friends, family, or coworkers. We do not know them personally.
Supporting someone doesn’t give us ownership over their relationships or the right to fight battles they never asked us to fight.
Sometimes the most respectful thing you can do as a fan is simply enjoy what they choose to share, support their work, and know when to let things go. 🤟🏼
🎂🎀 Project SANTA 23rd Silver Burst 🩷✨
เค้ามีโปรเจคเล็กๆมาฝากคับ
📅 5–6 November 2026
⏰ 10:00 AM – 7:00 PM
📍 The Never Coffee x On The Way Club ☕️ 7th Floor, Siam Square One
🎁 วิธีรับของ : ซื้อเครื่องดื่ม 1 แก้ว รับ Cup Sleeve 1 ชิ้น 🥤
ใครที่มาหาพี่เพิ้ดกับแซนต้า
📅 6 November 2026
📍 CentralWorld
🎀 Cup Sleeve จำนวน 50 ชิ้น
💖 Sticker Set จำนวน 100 ชุด
สำหรับสถานที่รับของที่ CentralWorld เดี๋ยวจะมาแจ้งเพิ่มเติมนะคะ
📢 ใครสะดวกที่ไหน อย่าลืมไปรับกอวด้วยน้า💕 มาเก็บของที่ระลึกและร่วมเขียนคำอวยพรให้แซนต้ากันนะคะ 🎂💗✨
#SANTA23rdSilverBurst #Santapp
Was so nervous 😭 I was shaking, turned bright red, went first and almost died 😭😂 literally forgot how to take selfies 😭😂 Super happy, but my heart rate is never coming down 😭
JASPER BONJOUR PARIS
#TheAFestivalxJASPER#Santapp
@Sadee_de_Luna Ahhh you get the vision!! 😭 imagine Santa pushing all his buttons while Perth just tries so hard to stay professional until he snaps 🫠 GMMTV please hear our prayers for 2027!! 🙏🏼
Thank you so much to everyone for all the sweet words! Apologies if I couldn't reply to each of you individually 😭 I'm still completely overwhelmed by Santa, by all of you, by literally everything. Sending the biggest hug to everyone 😭🫂🥹