right now my biggest focus is simple… get my money right, be the best person I can be, and make sure I’m genuinely happy for real. That’s the lane I’m in. That’s the only thing I care about.
I don’t want a soft life because I’m lazy. I want a soft life because I’ve spent most of my life in survival mode. my nervous system has been in fight or flight since childhood and now I’m choosing peace and stability.
i just want somebody who’s not gone switch up on me after a few hard conversations. like we need to be a team & amicably work through issues while still giving each other grace but everybody wants you to be so perfect in being human & having flaws like whatever.
I just want to experience a season of life where I'm not always recovering from something. It feels like there's always an ugly truth I'm having to confront, a belief I'm having to unlearn, more work to be done. It's exhausting and lonely. And yeah, I get that life isn't fair and that you have to just keep going. But i keep being resilient when what I'd really like is relief.
Girl to girl:
It's okay to be alone. It's okay to have a dry phone. It's okay to be celibate.
It's okay to be selfish. It's okay to have high Standards.
Your peace, your pace, your rules.💞
I really don't give af about being the bad guy in nobody’s story. I will burn every bridge if I feel as though you crossed me, made me feel a way or your intentions weren't pure. I never cared and I never will.
I’m a firm believer that people’s actions make it clear that they have no respect or regard for you, regardless of what they say. You just gotta realize it & take it for what it is.