Keep me out of any online drama that you started. The only shit Iโm interested in is real life and I have enough on my hands to sink a cruiseliner.
I love you but I canโt fix every problem that you create for yourself. I just donโt have it in me.
Itโs past hate now. I have nothing left to feel.
You took everything I had. Iโm dead inside.
I know what youโve done. You know what youโve done.
So the games start again. Weโve been here before and I know exactly what youโre doing. You forget how well I know you.
I donโt need anyone to believe me and thatโs your mistake. You think I do. You need validation. Not me.
I like to think youโll drop dead one day and Iโll finally be free.
@WillAttract Absolutely. Weโre lying to each other and itโs leading to lying to ourselves.
Once we lose our sense of honest self reflection and accountability itโs all downhill.
๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐ป๐ฒ๐น๐น ๐ณ: ๐ฎ๐ฌ ๐ข๐ฐ๐ ๐๐ผ ๐ด ๐ก๐ผ๐ ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ฐ
This is the gap between the night and the report, from Title IX texts reported by The New York Times and CBS News. No one has been criminally charged.
๐ฎ๐ฌ ๐ข๐ฐ๐, ๐บ๐ผ๐ฟ๐ป๐ถ๐ป๐ด. A roommate said Jane Doe called the night crazy, laughed, seemed in shock, and did not call it rape. A second roommate said she did say she was not comfortable.
๐ฎ๐ฎ ๐ข๐ฐ๐. She went to Cornell Health with a UTI and said she had caught it in a โ๐ต๐ณ๐ข๐ถ๐ฎ๐ข๐ต๐ช๐ค ๐ธ๐ข๐บ.โ She was told to speak to someone. She was not sent for a rape kit.
๐ฎ๐ฎโ๐ฎ๐ฏ ๐ข๐ฐ๐. One of the men apologised for how it went, said his memory was fuzzy, and said they should have shut it down. She replied that her memory was clouded too, that everyone was heavily intoxicated, and that โ๐ฏ๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ฆ ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ด๐ฆ๐น๐ถ๐ข๐ญ ๐ด๐ต๐ถ๐ง๐ง ๐ธ๐ข๐ด ๐ช๐ญ๐ญ๐ฆ๐จ๐ข๐ญ.โ She said she liked being with him and another man, and suggested meeting again without โ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ฆ๐น๐ต๐ณ๐ข 5 ๐ฃ๐ช๐ญ๐ญ๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ ๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ฏ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ฌ๐ฆ๐ต๐ข๐ฎ๐ช๐ฏ๐ฆ.โ The same day she texted โ๐ฆ๐ท๐ฆ๐ณ๐บ๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ฆ ๐ฌ๐ฏ๐ฐ๐ธ๐ด,โ and that it was โ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ฎ๐บ ๐ญ๐ช๐ง๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฆ๐ฎ๐ฑ๐ฐ๐ณ๐ข๐ณ๐ช๐ญ๐บ,โ and that all she could do was sleep and cry. He said she had nothing to be ashamed of.
๐ฎ๐ฑ ๐ข๐ฐ๐. He texted โ๐ ๐จ๐ฐ๐ฐ๐ฅ?โ She said another of the men had definitely told people.
About a week on. She found a Greek-life forum post: Chi Phi do drugs and โ๐จ๐ข๐ฏ๐จ ๐ณ*๐ฑ๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ข ๐ด๐ฐ๐ฑ๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ณ๐ฆ.โ She sent it to him. He called it ridiculous. She told investigators this was the first time the story was told as an assault rather than as her being a โ๐ธ๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ณ๐ฆ.โ A roommate said she had been explaining to Jane Doe that parts of the night could be classified as rape. Jane Doe had been assaulted before, that roommate said.
๐ฎ๐ด ๐ข๐ฐ๐. On a call a roommate overheard, she asked one of the men how he could let it happen.
๐๐ฎ๐น๐น๐ผ๐๐ฒ๐ฒ๐ป. She still wanted to go to the Chi Phi party. He texted, โ๐ค๐ฉ๐ช ๐ฑ๐ฉ๐ช ๐ช๐ด ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ด๐ฆ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ข๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ธ๐ฆ๐ญ๐ค๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ฆ ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ฆ,โ passing on the president. She replied she would bring cigarettes. The president, who is not one of the seven, then called and disinvited her. He said it was for her own good. She texted: โ๐ ๐ฌ๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ธ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ธ๐ข๐ด ๐จ๐ฐ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ฉ๐ข๐ฑ๐ฑ๐ฆ๐ฏ. ๐๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ธ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ข๐ฏ ๏ฟฝ๏ฟฝ๏ฟฝ๏ฟฝ๐ช๐ญ๐ญ ๐ข๐ญ๐ธ๐ข๐บ๐ด ๐จ๐ฆ๐ต ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ด๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ณ๐ต ๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ด๐ต๐ช๐ค๐ฌ. ๐ ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ ๐ข๐ณ๐ฆ๐ฏโ๐ต ๐ฎ๐บ ๐ง๐ณ๐ช๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ฅ๐ด. ๐ ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ ๐ข๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ค๐ฐ๐ท๐ฆ๐ณ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ข๐ด๐ด๐ฆ๐ด.โ
๐ฏ ๐ก๐ผ๐. She texted two of the men that 90% of the night was not consensual, that she had been given more ketamine than she could remember, that she had said she was uncomfortable, and that she did not know anyone in the room. Another text said she felt like a โ๐ด๐ฆ๐น ๐ฅ๐ฐ๐ญ๐ญ/๐ธ๐ฐ๐ณ๐ฌ๐ฆ๐ณ.โ
๐ณ ๐ก๐ผ๐. She asked an Ithaca hospital for a rape kit. Two weeks had passed. The DNA was gone.
๐ด ๐ก๐ผ๐. She reported it to Cornell University Police. The chapter and the seven were suspended the same day.
๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐ป๐ฒ๐น๐น ๐ณ: ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ป๐ถ๐ด๐ต๐ ๐ผ๐ณ ๐ญ๐ต ๐ข๐ฐ๐ ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ฐ
No one has been criminally charged. This is the night, from the complaint and from what she later told police.
Jane Doe was 20, a Cornell sophomore in Delta Delta Delta. She drank vodka at the sorority house, took an Uber with the house mother to a Tri Delta event at Moonies in Ithaca, then went to a second bar. She was under 21. At about 11 p.m. she walked alone to the Chi Phi house to meet a friend. The complaint says she arrived visibly drunk, after about ten drinks, and was given a beer.
A threesome was proposed with two men she knew. In the signed statement, as the DA quotes it, she agreed because she was attracted to one of them and out of โ๐ฅ๐ณ๐ถ๐ฏ๐ฌ๐ฆ๐ฏ ๐ค๐ถ๐ณ๐ช๐ฐ๐ถ๐ด๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ด๐ด.โ In the 14 Nov interview she called that first encounter something she was โ๐ฑ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ต๐ต๐บ ๐๐ ๐ธ๐ช๐ต๐ฉโ while very drunk.
The complaint says she was then pressured into ketamine she had not used before, plus more alcohol and marijuana. The DAโs account of the signed statement says she snorted a line poured on one manโs penis, and agreed when asked if they could do drugs off her body. The same statement has her taking more ketamine later, thinking that if she passed out and sex continued it could be charged as rape. She also said one man kept reaching for her and she swatted his hand away, and that when she asked the conduct to stop, it stopped.
At 1:42 at 20 Oct a Chi Phi Snapchat, attached to the complaint, said sex was available upstairs. Then โ๐๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ฑ ๐ด๐ต๐ช๐ญ๐ญ ๐ฐ๐ฑ๐ฆ๐ฏ?โ and โ๐ ๐ฆ๐ข.โ She told police she was cornered, naked, under the covers, as more men got into the bed, and that she was hit, hard. She said she lost the end of the night and did not know how many men had sex with her. The complaint says she was incapacitated by about 5:45 a.m.
ABC News has also reported a redacted Cornell file noting a ketamine overdose at the same house on or about 18 Oct, the day before. That is a separate incident.
Few things piss me off more than people who walk with their feet turned outwards and people who the open a bag of chips upside down.
Can you fucking not please.