this chapter of my life is called “why do i insist on over communicating & trying to find a deeper reason for their behavior so i can understand them more when i should just focus on the fact that their behavior is not aligning with what i need right now so i can move along”.
your significant other is human first and your partner second, putting unrealistic expectations on your significant other stops you from seeing them as human first with their own flaws, ways of being, feelings and so much more outside of being your partner.