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[BAMIDELE🕊 @thenihiin]

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[. @Fimiye]

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[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

I'll always advice that giving out your very young daughter in marriage to a much older man should be carefully thought through.

I am presently chatting with a young wife that was married at 19 to a man that was 32.

4 years into their marriage, they have 2 kids and they're struggling to feed.

If she doesn't go out to fend for money, they'll all stay hungry.

Her husband is not doing anything and doesn't care. He just stays at home to watch TV and play games.

In 4 years, he'll be 40.

In 10 years, he'll be 50.

Marriage is a long-term affair, and you should not be deceived by the little money a man is showing off, just so you can give your daughter to him in marriage.

What he does legitimately for a living should be paramount. And do not give your young daughter out because of survival.

She'll tell you that she loves him bla bla bla, don't listen to her.

When a man in his 30s is coming for a young girl for marriage, he's most likely marrying her for survival.

And you'll notice these few years into their marriage. And what most of these men do is use their children as a "weapon".

They know that it's difficult for a mother to sleep when her children are hungry. If he is lazy or unemployed, he will hardly take serious steps to change the situation.

He'll start to depend on his wife, and even her siblings to feed their children.

And if his wife is not earning much money or she's jobless, where is he expecting her to get money from?

Now she's in my DM, complaining bitterly. The reason I am not sharing the DM is that her husband is also in this community. According to her, he is vehemently against what I teach about provision. Anyway, I have stated my own opinion.

While I agree that people's situations can change, and no one knows what tomorrow holds, we should take precautions and ask key questions as humans.

Many of you have sisters or someone you know who is suffering this same fate.

End.

[ONYEKA V ™ @Sironyeka]

If your mom is alive, repost this.

[Àgbà John Doe (back up) @jon_d_doee]

1. Study her mother.

2. Listen to what she's not saying more than what she's saying.

3. Study the behaviors of her friends.

4. Watch how she asks for money.

5. Study her online behavior.

6. Study how she dresses and how sensitive she's in exposing her body parts.

7. Watch what she says about her family and how she regards her father.

8. When you're with your friends, watch how she interacts with them and if she's always careless in talking.

9. If she is demanding that you to give her money for her mother.

10. If she comes to your house and takes your food home without asking you first.

11. If she's always begging your friends for money, or going to your neighbors to beg for something.

12. If she's always defending a woman that cheats or cheated and was caught.

AJD.

[We love cars ❤️ @autochat360]

AMG GLS 63 SUV.🔥

[Martins | Film Director @Dir_Martinsz]

For a relationship to truly work in real life, you have to accept that you and your partner are two different individuals..shaped by different backgrounds, experiences, and ways of seeing the world…coming together to build one future. That alone requires patience, grace, and deep understanding.

You won’t always think alike, feel the same, or see things from the same perspective—and that’s normal. Differences don’t mean something is wrong; if handled well, they become an opportunity for growth.

In reality, you’ll notice a pattern: you meet someone you’re attracted to, but they lack sense. You find someone who has sense, but they can’t communicate. You meet a good communicator, but they struggle with trust. You find someone who trusts you, but they’re nonchalant. Then the one who isn’t nonchalant may not even have a clear future. It starts to feel like something is always missing.

That’s where understanding the 80/20 rule comes in. If your partner is 80% right for you, chasing the missing 20% in someone else will only lead you in circles. Even if it’s 70/30 or 60/40, the principle still stands…there’s no perfect person anywhere. What matters is that the good clearly outweighs the bad.

At the end of the day, it’s not always about who is right or wrong, but how you handle the moments when things don’t align. Do you listen or just react? Do you seek to understand, or are you only trying to be heard? Do you choose communication over ego?

Healthy love isn’t about perfection or agreeing on everything…it’s about respecting each other enough to work through your differences, protect what you have, and keep choosing each other even when it’s not easy. That’s where real love shows up.

[Football Tweet ⚽ @Footballtweet]

🚨 Lumumba, one of DR Congo’s most iconic fans, was denied a visa and couldn’t travel to Mexico for the play-off final against Jamaica. 🇨🇩❌

So he did what he always does — stood for the full 120 minutes in front of a giant screen in his neighbourhood in Kinshasa, watching his country qualify for the World Cup for the first time in 52 years. 👏😍

We NEED to see Lumumba at the World Cup. 🇨🇩👏

STAND UP for his pure dedication and his pure passion.

[Art of Life 🦋 @Art0fLife_]

He explains how to become dangerously confident (in 2 mins)

[Mack @kenzietuff]

If you’re a wife you need to understand 99% of media you see is trying to convince you to hate your husband/children. If you cannot handle this and stay grounded, log off. Constant stream of anti-family, spousal resentment propaganda. Most modern divorces are a result of this.

[Princess Moody 👑🖤🚩 @AnonyFreaK23]

#Dark

[Men of Purpose @Men_Of_Purpose]

This video will change your life 💯📷

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Omo, thank God for X payout o.

I had a loan with a bank, with N8m left to repay.

Repayment period still remained 2 years.

My lovely wife just suggested it, & I decided to pay off the entire loan today.

We are now debt free.

Let God be praised 🙏.

[Nicki 🫧🪷 @nickimoraa]

Please treat your kids right. Their childhood will affect their entire life.

[Dr. Emma Okore @EmmaOkoreMD]

Some people are really struggling.

A man brought his 3-year-old boy to the hospital. The child had been febrile and convulsing.

He was asked to make a deposit of ₦100,000 before the boy could be admitted.

Without saying much, he broke down.

For five minutes, he cried bitterly

Then he told us: they hadn't eaten in two days. There was nowhere he could get that kind of money.

He said he would have let the boy die at home—but he didn't have the heart. Coming to the hospital was his last resort.

It was as though cold water was poured on all of us.

We quickly admitted the boy. We treated him for free.

The hospital even sponsored his meals while he was on admission.

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Sometimes, it's good to let people see your vulnerability. Especially when you know you can't help yourself.

Not everyone who walks through our doors is trying to scam us. Some are simply at the end of their rope.

Thank God we listened.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Qualities of a good wife.

1) she's mostly interested in the academics of the children.

2) she goes to bed after her entire family and wakes up before everyone.

3) she's always financially accountable to her husband.

4) she doesn't let her financial success get into her head.

5) she makes sure that she cooks the meal of her husband, whenever she's free to do it, regardless of the number of maids that they have.

6) she protects her husband and covers his shsme. Especially from their children.

7) she most likely would not cheat on her husband. And even when she does, she would do it with a man that has shame and a lot to lose.

8) she's almost always clean. Her hygiene turns her man on.

9) She's not a religious woman who jumps from one religious house to the other. And her religious leader is not above her husband.

10) she'll not cheat back when her husband cheats.

11) she's not a feminist.

12) she shows a lot of respect for her father. And she avoids her mother who wants to stain her white.

13) she's submissive and respectful, because the man has earned it.

14) she'll never turn the minds of your children against you. Even if your marriage with her did not work out.

15) she doesn't have to have a big bumbum, or the most banging body or pretty face.

These are just a few.

End.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

When a man catches his wife cheating, she defends the man that she's cheating with.

When a wife catches her husband cheating, he defends his wife from the woman he's cheating with.

End.

[Lawrence Kitema @lawrencekitema]

Nobody is rich enough. Just pray that life doesn’t test you with a problem bigger than your account balance. Always stay humble and kind.