"Make your own refuges!", as though men bear no moral or economic responsibility for the need for refuges. Then, "you must share them with us!", as though the things women create are gifts they've selfishly hoarded.
@PeteOlusoga My two kids who are of the age so far have not taken degrees (yet?) and while I'm disappointed in some regards, in other ways I think they have dodged a massive bullet.
@PeteOlusoga Found this thread fascinating. I did my undergrad degree 1993-96 and have just started a postgrad. The entire approach and setup for the young people I'm studying with is utterly, utterly different. I was on full grant and took no loans and only worked in hols, for starters.
@PeteOlusoga Also now as an adult and a parent to kids the same age as some of my fellow students, I completely get where the lecturers are coming from and how much they can/cannot be expected to prod, prompt and care for their students' wellbeing.
@BradfemlyWalsh @grumpyhooker WhIch BiT of ThIS StorY doEs ThIs PerSoN NoT undeRstanD!??! ๐คช At this point you may as well write us descriptive essay of the trip, Sham. Leave them to pick holes in that on Friday night. Love that you're not letting yr truth be squished to fit someone else's vision. x
@BradfemlyWalsh @grumpyhooker Can't believe you're being asked to retroactively change your (young woman) behaviour AND reinvent all the norms for Dutch police in the last century, Sham. It's laughable. I went four years before you're describing and saw exactly the same heartbreaking sights. ๐