PLAY! Pokemon Events provide a ton of magic to the TCG Space.
If you have never attended, start small. Check out a local league, attend a prerelease, maybe hit up a League Challenge.
Building relationships with people who share the same passion as you…there’s nothing like it
To add on boundaries can also change. You can totally be cool with one thing and want to change, just don’t be a weirdo that flip flops everyday or is just looking to start shit.
Seeing the Deme stuff going around right now and I feel like people don’t realize that NSFW is a spectrum. It doesn’t explicitly label nudity but other things as well.
This being said it is good to make sure that you have your boundaries set and have them set ASAP.
If you complain about people using slurs then stand on it.
If you use them and then defend yourself with “I’m actually (identifying characteristic) so I can use the slur”
Dawg gtfo, why are you using it if it’s so “offensive”