and I'm such a broken person so I can never truly appreciate a person that is good to me because I have 4 voids inside me that one person can never fill on their own. I want to die. I should've died from the beginning.
how old was i when i
kissed: 14
drank: 14
smoke: 13
had sex: not yet
used drugs: 14
watched porn: 10
sent nudes: 11
got a tattoo : not yet
fell in love: 14
freshman year was a big yr for me
@pinkraspberry05@dwecayedgirl Why are you making assumptions about my thinking capabilities just because I disagree with you? You're just getting personal with a discussion that didn't involve you in the first place.
@pinkraspberry05@dwecayedgirl I haven't seen the movie. secondly where did i say that anxious is healthy? Both are unhealthy, but I personally think chronic emotional withdrawal is more damaging than excessive reassurance-seeking, and i think most people agree with that which is why avoidant gets more hate
@n1cowrld@dwecayedgirl Yes both are unhealthy but in the context of relationships i think alot of people prefer someone who loves abit too much then someone who doesn't show it.
@pinkraspberry05@dwecayedgirl i'm not saying avoidants are evil people. I'm saying that if I had to choose between dating someone who seeks reassurance and someone who repeatedly withdraws, stonewalls, or avoids emotional intimacy, I'd find the latter much more destructive and i think alot of ppl agree.
@dwecayedgirl I know, I didn't say that. I was answering your question. Attachment is usually a discussion related to relationships, so if someone is seeking companionship, it's annoying to deal with someone who only does it half assed. That's why they're demonized more. I hope you get it now