Sometimes home isn’t 4 walls and a roof
It’s a nice woman you met unexpectedly with the purest heart, beautiful eyes, a gorgeous smile and the most beautiful soul
real intimacy goes deeper than sex… it’s long conversations about everything and nothing, real dates, quiet moments that feel comfortable, sharing old memories, fears, dreams, and what you hope life becomes… it’s laughing until you can’t breathe, holding eye contact, and feeling each other’s energy. ❤️🔥
There’s a quote that says, “to be loved is to be known.”
Whenever me and my ex slept together, I’d ask him to set the fan to 3 because it was hot. And every time he’d ask the same thing:
“Why do you have a blanket on if it’s hot?”
And every time I’d explain that I can’t sleep without a blanket. Not because I’m cold — it just gives me comfort.
It seems like such a small thing.
But after years, you’d think someone who loves you would know the little things that make you you.
Because to be loved isn’t just to be chosen.
It’s to be known.
It’s to be understood in the quiet details of who you are.
And maybe the saddest part of losing someone you loved for so long.. is realizing that after all that time,
they never really learned the language of you.
A soulmate is not going to know how to automatically handle you. BUT...
A soulmate is going to learn and grow with you through your flaws and insecurities.
A soulmate will choose to stay when things get tough. They will look for solutions and communicate instead of running and quitting
“be safe”
“did you eat?”
“text me when you're home”
“be careful”
“do you have enough money?”
“do you want me to accompany you?”
“are you sure you are okay?”
“if you need me im here”.
so little efforts yet so important. it shows how much someone cares about you.
i can’t remember what i wore yesterday but every bartender on law & order has perfect recall for the drink order of the murdered businessman who stopped in once 8 saturdays ago
I might get attacked for this but if your man ain’t buying you expensive hair and bags .. but he’s still opening doors, making sure you eat, pulling out a chair for you, massaging your feet from a tired day, calming you down when you have anxiety, rubbing your back when you have cramps, holding you when you’re down, being honest, not cheating, being respectful and etc., You won! That's also princess treatment right there.
THE PEOPLE WE MEET ON VACATION TRAILER IS HERE 🚨
It’s not where you go, it’s who you’re meant to go with. People We Meet on Vacation premieres January 9. Starring Emily Bader and Tom Blyth. Based on the bestselling novel by Emily Henry.