Gojo

AI Engineer| Msc |Product manager | I build amazing software product | co-founder | Igbo.

[Gojo @D_last_Freeman]

Humanity has really advanced greatly technology wise but regressed so much socially. As a society we are intellectually backward and this would cost alot of countries in decades to come in terms of rise in violence, declining moral structure and birth rate.

[Gojo @D_last_Freeman]

Maybe he doesn’t mind

[Collins🫟 @_______Collins]

This one dey advertise him wife for other men. Him eye go clear one day 😂

[Gojo @D_last_Freeman]

@__Katrynaa @Luu_cih_ Maybe you were the side?

[Everest @novieverest]

Saying Tunde got dragged because his Chess in the slum was only for Yoruba kids is a lie. Nobody cared. People supported. The kids are Nigerians.
What triggered people, not me though was visiting the Tinubu who kept the kids under the bridge.
If Alex Onyia returns from Italy and takes the kids to Tinubu, he will get dragged too. If he takes them to the governors, he will get dragged too.
You can't save the prey and then take it back to its hunter.

[Gojo @D_last_Freeman]

She can be typing all this on her man’s lap

[Aisha @AishaaaMarie]

I dont date men without fathers, and I don’t date men with kids. I don’t date men in addiction. I don’t date men that hate women. I don’t date ugly men. And I don’t date men that can’t lead better than me. Thinking my singleness is ever a man’s decision is where you fcked up.

[Gojo @D_last_Freeman]

Yup, guide and also take care of your body. Too many beautiful women

[‏ً @oluwatxsinn]

una no fit finish, make i just guide

[Gojo @D_last_Freeman]

She wants to be a slave? No need to get married

[Oyindamola🙄 @dammiedammie35]

“Why don't you men want to get married? We single ladies are too many. We're beautiful, yet we have no partners. Who do you want to leave us for?”

- Lady laments over the growing number of single women, questions why many men seem uninterested in marriage.

[Gojo @D_last_Freeman]

If she didn’t support you during the relationship she won’t start during marriage

[Everest @novieverest]

Please marry right.
A man divorced his wife because she had ₦600k in her account but couldn't pay ₦24k for their daughter's treatment.

She almost died.

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

1. "She is stingy ooo. But I still love her."

I have no pity for him. It did not begin that day. He just didn't expect it to be that ridiculous.

2. "Take care of your woman. When the chips are down, she will take care of you."

Somebody who is not actively taking responsibility side by side with you, but choosing to keep her money and remain dependent on you, will not magically become responsible when the chips are down. Let your woman take financial responsibility with you from the beginning so she gets used to it.

[Gojo @D_last_Freeman]

@samson_samsen They fit Dey nurse you for future billing

[Gojo @D_last_Freeman]

@Feeztm @Yeahmicee This is so true

[Gojo @D_last_Freeman]

@EzekielOluwada6 Someone you should block and involve police sef

[Gojo @D_last_Freeman]

@_thevanessaa @ethrealuniq Nothing, misogyny must go

[Gojo @D_last_Freeman]

lol. Do you sleep with women?

[Zeze Millz @ZezeMillz]

I find this take so interesting. Cause don’t they have to make us wet 🤷🏾‍♀️. The idea that a man should just be hard is kinda childish. Make that man horny

[Gojo @D_last_Freeman]

His acting is just incredible

[𝐌𝐜𝐂𝐨𝐲 @_dave_mccoy]

Imagine being celebrated on stage…
And discriminated against the moment you step off it.

Rac¡sm is just a weird concept.

🎥 Green Book (2018).

[Gojo @D_last_Freeman]

Just imagine the loss

[IGBO History & Facts @IgboHistoFacts]

This early 20th-century Igbo wooden chair was discarded by an Igbo Christian convert who viewed it as demonic, uncivilised, or pagan. In 2013, it sold abroad for US$5,000 at auction.

[Ken_ @cknze1]

Towards Reproduction (or why men have a "mumu button").

If we strip life of all its elaborate complexity,

Down to the bare bones,

What will we have left as the ultimate raison d’etre?

Reproduction.

Reproduction is the ULTIMATE evolutionary and biological imperative.

From this perspective, everything else begins to make sense.

For example, why do women who are apparently mediocre still carry an over-bloated sense of self-importance? (I am the table)

The answer is jarring: within the evolutionary grand scheme (reproduction), her being a woman is enough.

Imagine hypothetically, an ancestral tribe suddenly got raided, leaving a few survivors to repopulate,

The only relevant question that would be asked of the women isn’t:

Can you fight?

Can you build?

Are you smart?

Are you eloquent?

The only question that would be asked of her is:

Can you give birth?

This is all evolution requires of her at the most fundamental level, and nature front-loads her with this capacity at birth (her womb).

This is what is meant by, “A woman is born with value. And men must build their value.”

Why must men build their value?

Within that same ancestral logic, the questions that would be asked of the man would be radically different:

Can you fight?

Are you strong?

Can you build?

Can you provide?

These are what ensure the highest chance of survival for the children who will be born to the clan.

A man therefore gets no bonus points for merely existing as a boy if he does not morph into a capable man.

This natural asymmetry also determines how nature engineers the mating dance.

Why is it that, in matters of women, “men too mumu”?

This is not cosmic mistake.

A man can demonstrate incredible expertise and peak laser focus in multiple domains (this was needed for evolutionary survival),

And yet when it concerns a woman, he starts moving like a moron.

If a system is built to run with incredible precision in every other area save one, the area exempted is engineered design, not system glitch.

Why must men be dumbed down once women are involved? As before, the answer is Reproduction.

(ALWAYS start from reproduction and then build from there).

The threshold for activating a man’s “mumu button” also had to be incredibly low to boost reproductive chances.

If women needed to be smart, and graceful, and capable, to get men to desire and chase them, we would all go extinct.

So all a woman needs to do to be desirable and chased isn’t to be functional, but to be pretty (foremost fertility marker), and a man’s testosterone will do the rest.

That is to say, if the cost of reproduction could not be secured by female excellence (too risky),

Then it would be secured by means of a crafted weakness in men (testosterone).

Because reproduction MUST ABSOLUTELY HAPPEN.

The further reason that nature judges that men must bear this reproductive cost (the cost of coming together)

Is that the male reproductive resource (sperm) is in plentiful supply. And the female reproductive resource (eggs) is scarce.

In every market where resource is surplus, the system doesn’t guard it carefully, it spends it.

So in times of war? Send men.

Dangerous jobs? Send men.

Famine and pestilence? Women and children first.

(“women and children” was not a social construct but a codification by men of this evolutionary preference).

A tribe that loses 80% of its men can still recover within a generation.

A tribe that loses 80% of its women is functionally finished.

This is the ultimate red pill for men.

Within evolution’s grand plan (reproduction), you are the disposable sex.

Even the emotional weight of the relationship has to be foisted on you (be the bigger person, apologize for peace to reign, be a man) and rebranded as “honorable” and “masculine” because it is the necessary psychological training required to keep the disposable unit functional.

Evolution could not afford to have the cannon fodder grieving about the cost.

For while men bear the civilizational load bearing (adding elegance to existence, the “cherry on top”)

Women bear the reproductive load bearing (the very foundation of existence/survival itself)

As always,

The game is brutal, but fair.

[Gojo @D_last_Freeman]

If you were that smart you won’t want to be kidnapped

[flora💋😫 @floratwt]

I wanna get kidnapped by bandits to see if am smart enough to escape.

[AFTER HOW MANY CHILDREN @tomisin_ms]

Somebody said “Blue tick…the mark of the lying beast” 😂😂

[Gojo @D_last_Freeman]

Is the last guy mad? 😂 you don’t know your daughters name?

[𝗱𝗮𝗻𝗻𝘆🫧💚 @beyoncegarden]

this is actually really sad😭