Update your partner always. It's not a rule, It's a love language Your partner shouldn't guess where you are. They shouldn't wonder what you're doing. Updating them is not control. It's love. It says, "You matter. I want you to know."
I think every woman hits that season where she’s not angry anymore, just aware. You see people clearly. You see yourself and actions even more clearer. You move differently. You don’t explain… you just SHIFT. That’s maturity mixed with grace 🤍
I pray I marry a man who actually wants to be married. An honest, hardworking, loving man. I pray he has morals, goals, and boundaries. Even when things get tough between us he won't give up. A man who isn't out here embarrassing the family we created.
I saw a TikTok about a girl saying how she doesn't stay mad for long because either she's going to figure it out, or there's nothing that can be done about it. And as simple as that sounds is as simple as it is really.
bitch i was depressed for months, nobody noticed. i still showed up for people even when i didn’t know how to show up for myself. that’s why i don’t buy the whole “i was going through something” excuse for treating people badly. we’re all going through something.