A lot of people donโt know hard it was for me to finally accept and love my body the way it is. It was a long journey. I use to hate looking in mirrors or going outside because I didnโt wan people to stare at me. Iโm so glad to finally be able to just be me!
Doing this usually starts to make so people donโt wanna talk about it anymore. Itโs a way of invalidating that persons experience. Thatโs part of the reason I learned to study people in school. You pick up on the smallest cues.
I absolutely HATE the idea of โwell someone else has it worseโ like NO.
Your pain and trauma are completely valid despite what someone else went through..