Become dangerously educated. Be well-learned. Be harder to fool, sharper in conversation, and better at reading situations. Draw on centuries of knowledge and wisdom. Learn relentlessly. An informed mind is hard to manipulate, intimidate, or contain.
Spiritually gifted people have a rare intuitive ability and foresight since childhood. They have an extremely rich inner world. They never feel impressed by others for their material possessions. They may seem kind, innocent - but they'd always see through the deception and clever games that people try to play on them. That is why they absolutely despise participating in frivolous games that most people sell their souls for. Biggest challenge for them is to integrate themselves in materialism and external world, which is why they must balance their inner world with something they find exciting and worthy of doing.
i dont think people realize how beneficial being alone for awhile is. taking time off from relationships, finding out who you are & what you want out of your life, learning to love yourself and growing, learning to be content and happy without needing someone. Its crucial.
if you're meant to be with someone, it'll happen, no matter which path you take, life has a way of bringing the right people to you at the right time. maybe not tomorrow, maybe not even next year, but what's meant for you will always find it's way. real connections don't fade, they just wait for the right moment to spark again. so don't chase, don't beg, don't force anything. if it's true, it'll come back. trust the timing of your life, what's meant for you will always find you.
If you’re not coming from money and you don’t have family connections opening doors for you, please take self-development VERY seriously.
You genuinely don’t have the luxury of just finishing school and sitting down waiting for life to figure itself out.
Men find a woman who can say what she wants in bed, enjoy sex without shame, and initiate it with her partner dangerously attractive. Not because she’s easy, but because she’s confident, comfortable with her sexuality, and actually desires her man.
the fastest way to kill motivation is to make your identity depend on the outcome. it’s called ego involvement. when failing becomes failing as a person, your brain starts avoiding the whole thing. not because you don’t care, but because you care too much.
Getting your shit together requires a level of honesty, you can’t even imagine.
Ain’t nothing easy about realizing you’re the one that’s been holding you back this whole time..that your lack of discipline is the answer to some of those why not me questions you ask.
there is a fire inside you that you have barely begun to understand. learn how to reach it when everything is going right. then learn how to reach it when everything is going wrong. learn how to summon it when you’re tired, discouraged, bored, scared - when you have every reason to let it go. once you know how to find that fire no matter what is happening around you, good luck stopping you.
Date somebody who actually wants to experience LIFE with you. Not just dinner and sex. Museums, cooking classes, festivals, pottery, concerts, bookstores, road trips, EVERYTHING .
You can't fix how people perceive you. You can be your most honest self and still be misunderstood. Nobody sees you for who you actually are. People see you through their own experiences, insecurities, and expectations. Let them. And stop trying to change what they think of you. Protect your peace, and just stay true to yourself. That's all that matters. Let them think whatever they want.