Most couples break up after having a baby because the woman changes and a lot of the time, she changes because she’s basically doing everything by herself. 😭 She has to take care of the baby, make the bottles, get up throughout the night, cook, clean, AND still take care of her man. Now she’s exhausted, overwhelmed, and touched out, so sex isn’t really on her mind. Then instead of the man stepping up and helping her, y’all start arguing, he feels neglected, she feels unsupported, and sometimes he ends up cheating. 💀
A baby doesn’t necessarily ruin a relationship. The lack of support after the baby comes can.
A verdade é que felicidade não é um checkpoint. Não funciona com: quando começar a jobar ou quando encontrar minha wife ou quando tiver casa e carro ou quando for rich serei feliz daí em diante. É algo que se deve procurar ter day by day enquanto lutas pros teus life goals.
I’ll never look at my life and think I have a bad life. Ion care what’s going on.
I have far too many blessings to ever lose sight of how good God has been to me & mine