I am so happy and content in Jesus. I feel so much peace and excitement right now. It's overwhelming. God is good. God is faithful. He keeps His promises.
Love after 25 is different. You’re not looking for sparks. You’re looking for stability, kindness and shared goals. You’ve outgrown games and butterflies. You’re craving peace, emotional safety, and someone whose future aligns with yours.
Stop catering to men. Seriously. Stop dropping everything and running to him because you'll know he'll get upset if you don't. That's not love. It's control. His problems? His "give me what I want NOW or fuck you and fuck off" mentality? That's not flattering. It's toxic as fuck.
hold yourself accountable but not too accountable. it's great to be able to see when you were wrong & what you could've done better but it becomes harmful when you're always taking blame to keep the peace, to keep someone from leaving, etc. don't carry weight that isn't yours.