Nobody to protect from each other. For eg: I sat through a staff meeting dominated by female managers the other day, it began with empty platitudes and "you go queen" energy, moved through two faced compliments and descended to name calling and everyone getting caught up in their feelings in surround sound within about 40min with nothing accomplished. Males and females are there to balance each other out,We actually need each other despite differences .
I saw on TikTok where a girl planned a surprise anniversary trip for her boyfriend. She saved for months, booked a small beach resort, decorated the room with their photos, and wrote him a long letter about how much she loved him and believed in him. She was shaking when she gave it to him because she really put her heart into it.
He skimmed the letter, said “Thanks, babe,” and spent most of the trip on his phone playing games and talking to his friends. She kept smiling in the video, but later admitted in the comments that she cried alone in the bathroom that night.
And honestly? That’s when I realized: some men don’t hate romance. They just don’t care enough about you to try.