might get cancelled for saying this but this looks like it's copied from somewhere? the name...the cover.. it all looks so familiar. i just can't pinpoint exactly where i've seen it. oh wait i figured it out. it looks like the ALBUM OF THE YEAR
non-confrontational people are the worst to have around you, and they’re never held accountable for how many problems they actually cause.
they won’t defend you, but they’ll play “neutral” in situations that harm you. they’ll be passive aggressive and then play innocent. they’ll engage in deceitful or dishonest behavior to avoid confrontation while still trying to get whatever they want out of a situation (think cheaters, or people who don’t like someone but refuse to break up and instead just treat them like shit).
confrontational people will address issues head on, and while it takes time to learn how to do that gracefully or appreciate it being done gracefully, it will save you from a lottttt of pain and problems in the long run.
The constant gaslighting from ex-husband is extremely hurtful and exhausting. I have always pleaded and screamed to have a life with my boys.
Relationships with teenage boys is complex. I have felt demoralized by this situation and have always asked and almost begged for them to be a part of my life.
Sadly, they have always witnessed the lack of respect shown by own father for me. They need to take responsibility for themselves. With one son only seeing me for 45 min in the past 5 years and the other with only 4 visits in the past 5 years. I have pride too. From now on I will let them know when I am available. Trust me, those white lies in that book, they are going straight to the bank and I am the only one who genuinely gets hurt here. I will always love them and if you really know me, you won’t pay attention to the tabloids of my mental health and drinking. I am actually a pretty intelligent woman who has been trying to live a sacred and private life the past 5 years. I speak on this because I have had enough and any real woman would do the same.