One day I had a very vivid dream that I had paid for plane tickets. Cried about the price. Then spent all day and light packing and crunching for the con and making plans with friends that are also going. And when I finally laid down to go to bed in my dream. I woke up to my work alarm irl.
People lack accountability, then be like,
"You could've just talked to me." No, I couldn't lol. You don't listen. You deflect.
You gaslight. You make me feel like I'm the problem for bringing it up. So no, I stayed silent to protect my peace, not because l didn't want to fix it.